Girls, do you get treated differently in public, based on how much cleavage you're showing?

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Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

People, men mostly, tend to be a bit more attentive and amiable when I'm showing cleavage. A random free drink at the occasional bar by a flirty bartender maybe. But other than that, it doesn't afford me much more than that, unless we count the extra stares, phones ever so casually pointed my way as if I can't tell they're taking a picture/video, catcalling, etc.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I don't notice a difference, in how people treat me.

GamesNCake90 · Answer

I get stared at more by men, and I get more glares of the "up and down" look from women. But I'm also a 36DDD. I would imagine if I was a smaller chest size, the attention from men would probably be the same, but women would not care to look at me. As the phrase goes, I'm considered "Blessed in the Chest", but I don't feel that way. The amount of times I've been told to be grateful for my size because of a lot of women pay to have my problem is ridiculous, and I don't care. I only show cleavage when it's hot outside or when in a setting where someone else staring at me won't get me fired or reprimanded at my job.

I go out mostly with my husband, though, and a lot of men ask if I'm with him. He says yes, and on several occasions, he's gotten a hand shake or a congratulations or what not, but the men never say anything to me, which I just... that's just weird. Granted, it's usually from older men. I don't think a guy in his 20's or 30's has really ever done that.

silvermoon84 · Answer

I get creeped on if I show cleavage (yes, even at my age I’m still getting creeped on and catcalled, and I can’t wait for it to stop). No thanks! I get told constantly that I’m too modest, and I’m keeping it that way!

Rosexøxø · Answer

What’s the public? I’ve avoided guys altogether in my late teens and as a young adult I almost only go outside for errands and even still that’s not always necessary. Guys imagine either way, so I figure why not just remove the variable altogether lol.

Now that I’m married I can go out more and feel a sense of ease. He can stand behind me if need be, among other things. No, I don’t recommend this for EVERYONE.

I just didn’t think parties were worth all the hype.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Sadly, yes, but I can't complain. I have had everything from free drinks and meals to free taxi rides, probably due to my cleavage.

Lalalove11 · Answer

A lot more guys looking and taking a deep sigh or inhale. Like they're trying to control themselves ! It's funny 🤣 but I don't show much cleavage. It definitely attracts more attention but not always good attention 😬each to their own but I don't really want to have my boobs stared at too much

MinnieMousse · Answer

I usually get more unwanted attention and catcalls from guys the more cleavage I show, so I usually keep it modest in public.

Apple1996 · Answer

No my boobs are so big they get attention even when covered up

mandyfire98 · Answer

Yes I get treated differently. Men usually flirt more, they look at my face less lol. Some are usually really nice and forward. Some are creepy, some are inappropriate. I get hit on a lot more if I'm showing cleavage.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I don't think I get treated any differently. I have a small chest so whether I show cleavage or not doesn't matter, I'll be treated the same way by people.

FarAway12 · Answer

Pretty much all my life I've always dressed modestly, either because of my mom or because I was in a relationship and didn't feel the need to dress provocatively and therefore was mostly ignored. I'm single now and trying to change the way I've always looked so I bought a push up bra and wear more flattering clothes and shoes and I get looks and one man flat out asked me out lol. It's pretty crazy what cloths can do for a girl.

DishLady · Answer

Sometimes. (Tbh, depending on the top, it’s not necessarily about the cleavage as much as the bounce...)

Anonymous · Answer

When you have really big boobs and you don’t show cleavage and you leave things to the imagination, you get a lot of attention. But when I would show my cleavage, not so much surprisingly

Anonymous · Answer

If you get treated better because you show cleavage it means that you are attracting cheap guys and not qualitative guys

SunnyGirly · Answer

I don't know because I have no cleavage but I see girls that do and they get VIP treatment anywhere

MaddyJ · Answer

I don’t notice any difference.

MemeSupreme · Answer

that implies i got cleavage to show off lol

Anonymous · Answer

No I don't

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