Why are some girls so b***y to other girls but yet seek their approval/want to use them?

[Nazgol]

[sage2021]

They only seek their approval so they can get close enough to either collect information from you, so, those kind of girls you don't want to say very much about yourself to them.
They will use you, talk behind your back, turn other girls against you, lie about you, spread bad rumors about you.
So, stay away from that girl or that type of girl.
Your gut feeling will tell you when you have met some nice girls that can turn out to be best friends with you.
I am an older woman, but you know what? I am still friends with some of my friends from middle school and high school. Over 50 year's now.
I still get text messages from them on my birthday, they send me messages during the holidays - yes, still!
It's great to have good friends. Even only one is a treasure.
Sage 🌹

[noemiii]

They don’t want their approval, they seek to have the upper hand on them in terms of male validation. Truthfully, most women are male centered and see other women as a threat, but based on competition. Women who are not male centered either know the male psychology or haven’t been in relationships often. Always built on insecurity, though. Always.

[Wiredone]

Not all women are like that but the ones that are, are two faced. They will be nice to you until they get what they want from you then toss you to the curb

[Sarah2007]

Hypocrites and attention seekers ( two faces ), they always think the spotlights are on them and they are the main character.

[CubaPirate]

Your answer is in the question

[andy530]

They are insecure

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's just jealousy

[Anonymous]

some are