What causes a man to be nervous around a woman?

KezHarris

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The only thing that makes me nervous is that I want to have sex with them and I can't control my sensuality enough for them not to feel it. They don't like it so it's hard for me to approach because generally no matter what I do or say they are turned off by it.

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- KezHarris
  
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  Are you more nervous when you just want sex or when you actually fancy them? Or is it because you fantasise about sex with them when you masterbate?
  
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- Sharkstealth
  
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  When I'm standing near them I want them naked stroking or sucking my dick. If i have seen them and they look at me I do masturbate to them. Right now there are 3 girls that I wake up aroused to. One in the gym and 2 baristas at the Starbucks I'm a regular at. Lately I wake up hard to the thought of both baristas giving me a double blowjob. They both know I want to fuck them.
  
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- Sharkstealth
  
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  Me and the gym girl always catch each other looking and wow she is hot!
  
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- LiamS95
  
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  Sounds like Hou seriously lack confidence, I believe that more then anything else that acctracts and turns a woman on I'd a guy being full of confidence and that doesn't mean being full of suit.
  
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- LiamS95
  
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  *full of shit
  
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- Sharkstealth
  
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  @LiamS95 I'm definitely very forward. I don't have anything not to be confident about. These are some of the cutest girls around.
  
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- LiamS95
  
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  Being forward is often how persons lacking confidence react.
  
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- Sharkstealth
  
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  @LiamS95 people don't usually cut down other people's responses. You threw out an age old cliche that's completely ridiculous. I admit that you have to be assertive to initiative conversation with a girl. Assertiveness can translate to confidence but this is just a little girl hand me down cliche. Confidence will never get you the girl because in the end they choose. Maybe you should actually have some personality instead of just mimicking stupid little bitches cliche. I know you more than likely will have to Google search most of the vocabulary in this.
  
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TommyMountainFigure Follow
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I can't think of anything.. Hmmm OK, if she was waving a gun around as she's talking.. THAT would do it!

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IslaTheWitch Follow
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whatever she does and he feels uncomfortable with... not knowing him makes it hard to say what it could be in his case

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kylee2437 Follow
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His overall confidence can play an affect

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Finchie40 Follow
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If he feels she is absolutely beautiful and feels she is out of his league , he will more than likely get nervous around her because he feels like he does t have a chance with her , but wants a chance with her

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HawkPerception Follow
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Beauty, intelligence... attraction of any kind. Or intimidation in the sense that she seems a little scary to deal with.

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DrPepper12 Follow
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His expectations he's created
Her beauty
His overthinking everything
His thought wrong time / place
His buddies watching
His not having "home field" advantage

And a million more reasons

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RavVid Follow
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I don't feel nervous around women. I hide my most lecherous thoughts and imagery. I might feel nervous if i couldn't.

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animalwithin Follow
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The man needing her. The man pedestalizing her because of her looks.

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paledreams Follow
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I for one may be just wanting to get my food or my service or my goods, not to be flirted at or flirted with - cringe 😬😳

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- paledreams
  
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  So I'm often nervous not for the reasons it seems - I'm uninterest hahahaha 😂
  
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kellytheman Follow
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Just maybe how attractive she is and afraid of rejection. Also he could be nervous the way he acts and might think he is weird.

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Juxtapose Follow
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Nobody likes being out on the spot and rejected. Usually men are afraid of women because of social stuff.

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Yannae Follow
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Me liking her, me being socially awkward, me having to bring very bad news.

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Dongie Follow
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A certain organ is talking to him. He's afraid she'll hear him.

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Lokiion Follow
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Just her being pretty makes a lot of guys nervous sometimes just the fact that she's a girl can

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Adogdog Follow
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If she is cute sometimes, I'm a little nervous. Just wondering what she is thinking.

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GoodGuyBreakingBad Follow
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I think his heart pitter patters for you <3

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Rohaan2020 Follow
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When she’s too confident… and for me its the fact that i have a rlly tiny cock that makes me nervous around hot women

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- KezHarris
  
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  Really? Even though it’s hidden in your pants?
  
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- Rohaan2020
  
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  Yeah bcz at least i know its tiny…. and especially when i am around my female frnds bcs they might joke about guys cock and at that time i feel weird… what would they think if they knew my size
  
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obsessive behaviour can be one of the causes...

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- KezHarris
  
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  Saying I’m obsessed with him?
  
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  are you?
  
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Billlewis Follow
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Just the fact that she's a woman is enough.

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Jennz6 Follow
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She’s too beautiful for him

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LiamS95 Follow
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He likes you but is afraid of rejection.

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jahaims Follow
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That would depend on the guy

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clampfan101 Follow
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For me it’s fear of rejection.

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Anonymous
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Inexperience.

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- KezHarris
  
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  What if he’s an older man with experience but is still nervous?
noohair Follow
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The fear of having their ego damaged.

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KelsoAlexander Follow
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Anxiety, paranoia, crack.

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OhLongJohnsoning Follow
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Could be anything

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Judgement

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