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If we don't know if she likes us or we are trying to make a good first impression, yes, definitely, VERY nervous, because sexy women who are perfect mental matches are very rare. Only guys who want a relationship feel this way though.
Guys wanting a one night stand/hookup, or friends with benefits won't get nervous, because sexy women are common, so they will act very confident because there is nothing to lose thats not easily gained elsewhere.
Male condifence when asking a woman out is a lie, its a trick that sleazy men pull, no guy is confident and calm when he thinks he might lose something he really wants if he screws up even slightly.
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I do if in a group and im not sure if she is showing interest in me. Once she show interest Ill reciprocate playfully but after that once we are alone Im not nervous anymore Im not holding anyone hostage or making them feel obligated to be there so if they didn't want to hang out they would have left already. I kind of like that nervous energy though.
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Yes, we get nervous just like women do.
Obviously. Lol Haven’t you ever talked to a man? Women are the same way around guys they like. It doesn’t matter how hot and confident she is the rest of the day; as soon as she gets around a guy she likes, she’ll turn into a giggly 13 year old.
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when I was a kid, and a young teen, yes... I would get nervous and extremely shy around girls, moreso around the prettier and the outgoing... and I had a crush on them I would freeze completely
but... that was so many years ago, as a dude, and as an adult that just doesn't happen anymore, I grew up and turned into a more balanced man Yes it happens especially if he feels she is out of his league , he might get nervous and not know the right thing to say so he tends to be quiet and doesn’t talk much cuz he is afraid of saying something stupid That might turn her off , Some Girls do this as well to a guy she is really into
Depends on how easy they are to approach and talk too. I’m an observer. So if I see you aren’t great people person, and you can’t handle being approached. I won’t bother.
whether its men or women, nerves are a natural response when someone is into someone else which my best guess would be fear of saying the wrong or embarassing thing as a possible ice breaker
Yes. I can't think of things to say or end up saying really lame stuff.
Yes. A lot. Some can overcome it, but it's still there.
When I was young, yes. Not any more thankfully! :-)
Yes!..
But it's our job to be fearless!..
Most definitely, yes. It's like you melt inside lol
Depends, some people make you feel comfortable instead.
Not always sometimes motivated to speak to her?
Yeah, I have sometimes
Yes, it happens. Guilty as chargrd
Certainly, i always was
Yes obviously
I used to.
Yes,
A little yes
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