I don't talk or initiate a talk with girls because I look ugly and they might embarrass me if I do. Am I doing anything wrong?

[Anonymous]

If you get to know me you'll realize I'm actually really genuine, people tell me I'm funny all the time but off first initial impression you wouldn't know becos I'm a really average looking guy. I mean I'm sure there's Women who find me attractive but Hell would freeze before I notice it.. hence Women never show any clear signs of interest/attraction..

How do ugly/average guys overcome these life hard obstacles?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, I feel you on that. It can be tough being self-conscious about your looks. But you gotta remember that way more goes into attraction and relationships than just physical stuff. Plus, not every girl cares so much about looks - they care more about how a guy treats them and makes them laugh.

Don't sell yourself short before even trying, man. I'm sure you have way more great qualities than you realize. And you never know, once a girl gets to know you and your sense of humor, she may totally dig you.

My advice would be just start by making more friends - guy and girl - without the pressure of thinking about dating. Build up your social skills and confidence talking to different people. And when you feel a girl isn't weirded out by you, try throwing in a casual compliment to see how she reacts.

Just take it slow, focus on being genuinely interested in other people, and the rest will follow. Looks aren't everything - I'm sure you'll find someone who appreciates you for you bro! Just gotta put yourself out there first. You've got this!

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

MY QUESTIONS ABOUT YOUR FAVORITE THING I'M ADMITTING I LOVE TO PLEASURE HER ARE THE GIRLS DON'T LIKE THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR?

[Sunnysunny123]

Maybe try to get your confidence up and stop fearing of getting rejected... most of the women are not looking for models, yes we all have preferences but personality and mutual interests play a huge roll.

[EmmaMary]

Back yet again with more of your pathetic bellyaching moans. smh

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Asker]

You don't have to read or reapond..

[Anonymous]

Yes stop telling us how you feel sorry for yourself all the time and do something about it.