A woman told me it's gonna be hard for me to lose her trust?

[Anonymous]

What does she mean by that? I thought trusts are easily broke? She's been a good friend to me for a few months now. We have our ups and downs and We both have our problems on life

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, well whenever a girl talks about trust issues it usually means something happened to make her wary of guys or doubt that you'll be reliable. A few thoughts on what she could mean:

- She must have had some guys treat her shitty in the past who broke promises or weren't there for her. Now she's more guarded with her feelings.

- Things might be moving kinda fast between you and she wants to slow it down so she doesn't get hurt if you change suddenly. Girls get attached easily sometimes.

- Little arguments or not following through on plans may have already started to dent how much she believes what you say. So rebuilding that trust after will take time.

- Her own problems or past could make it hard for her to open up fully and let someone else in again without being afraid of getting hurt. Vulnerability thing.

My advice would be don't push her too fast, let her set the pace for how close you get. Prove yourself reliable over time through your actions, not just words. Be there for her even when it's not convenient 100%. That's the only way to really gain anyone's trust back once it's gone. You got this man, just be patient!

[Anonymous]

She wants to be close to you.