Guys, you tell a mid girl she's beautiful. What's your angle?

Question

Yeah, she's pretty but not a 10. So why did you tell her how beautiful she is?

TonyV · Accepted Answer

Uh huh, well I don't think you'll ever get it. Maybe cause the aregent, intitled women who thing for to highly of themselves and have convinced themselves they top tier tens thing they get to be the beauty police, think they get to dictate other women are mid and judge their looks for being different.

Ignoring the fact that women who self-proclaim to be 10 are never as physically attractive as they've gaslit themselves to believe their ridiculous egotistical personality drops them to a 2 even if their looks were a 8 or 9.

By comparison there are sweet, compassionate, caring, nice but a little shy "mid" girls that are too hard on themselves they're 6 or 7s but are too insecure about some silly minor flaw like chubby thighs, small boobs or face acne. Those sweet girls you call mid have hearts of gold, it's hard not to tell them how perfect they are, so you want to give them a boost, kind words of inderment.

I'd rather build a acne face sweetheart 6 or 7 than ever validate the ego of some aregent, bitchy 8 or 9.

DrPepper12 · Accepted Answer

Guilty. Compliments cost nothing and mean everything even if not completely true it is gratifying, validating and confidence building. Its just a nice thing to do.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm actually pretty bad with that. I'm honest to the point where it becomes a flaw. But the thing is I wouldn't change it. I my past relationships I would tell my partners they were not 10s. They were 8s at most on a scale of 1 to 10. And that's completely fine because I'm still attracted to them. I myself am a 7 or below. Physical attraction doesn't mean we have to date models to attract each other. It's not like I can compare physically to dudes like Hentry Cavill, Chris Hemsworth, or Jason Momoa. The main thing is that you're attracted to them and that you're compatible.

I try to get that into my partners heads to make them okay with who they are. Any guy can say "You're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen!" and to try and appease the girl. And some girls will actually believe them because they want to believe them and think "they genuinely believe I'm the most beautiful girl in the world! They're blinded by love!" Hate to say it, but even loving a girl doesn't blind us.

Finchie40 · Answer

Because she might be a 10 to him , just because she doesn’t feel like a 10 in herself , he might see her as one. If I tell a girl she is beautiful , she is beautiful to my eyes , I am not putting her on some scale , I am just letting her know I found her absolutely beautiful to my eyes and letting her know , I am interested in her. you don’t have to be a model to be considered a 10 , there are so many characteristics that can turn someone from say a 7 to a 10 , based upon their looks and personality and the way they treat you , why scales are stupid , cuz they really don’t mean shit , So if someone is calling you beautiful , you are beautiful to their eyes , take that as a compliment whether you don’t feel that beautiful within yourself. I will give you a prime example, I have a huge crush on Haley Williams the singer of Paramore , to me she is just an average girl , if i didn’t know anything about her and I walked passed her on the street , I would probably not even notice her , But now that I do know who she is , and I hear her voice and her lyrics and music , she is absolutely beautiful to me , Her voice and the way she sings turns me the fuck on. I would so bang the shit out of her if I had the opportunity to do so lol Her characteristics make her absolutely beautiful to my eyes making her more attractive to me than just looks.

RyanR03 · Answer

honestly it’s not complicated. Number 1, guys will flirt with a much larger wider range than maybe one might think… provided that they thought they can get away with it. Guys in certain higher level positions or social classes simply have to be more careful. Though sometimes they just get horny and just say screw it. Take the Clinton Whitehouse affair. She was.. normal kind of average looking type woman. And Clinton saw the opportunity. Most average men would at least be willing to flirt with women from a 5.5 to. 10 , in many different body shapes simply because they want validation back.. to get in her pants or just for that moment. But it doesn’t mean anything other than that in a situation , if I am following you, where a guy overly complements a woman. It’s not that rare.. but it doesn’t mean he completely is genuine

HighValue · Answer

A girl could be a 5 or 6 physically (5 is minimum attractiveness to have interest), but if she has a great personality with good compatible morals, she can actually become more attractive to a person interested in her by 1 or 2 points. So that means someone that is initially a 5 could become a 7 if she is highly compatible morally/personality wise. Or a 6 could become an 8 to a person that she is highly compatible with morally/personality wise.

The opposite is true too. Someone can lose multiple points in attractiveness if their personally is terrible.

BetaBucks · Answer

I wouldn't do that, but if I did, it would be to pull her out of a dark place. A lot of guys would be doing it to smash, knowing they aren't dating material. Some guys just recognize that they are also mid, so a mid girl IS beautiful for their standards.

Anonymous · Answer

Because it isn’t always about looks. A girl who is a 7 w a good personality would trump a 10 pretty much all the time if she’s got a bad personality. Assuming he’s looking for an actual relationship. If he’s looking to just smash than personality doesn’t play too much of a role in it.

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

How about: "It was true. I did not say anything along the lines of 'the most beautiful on Earth'. Women are beautiful enough by default and they have to mess themselves up big time to actually stop being beautiful (yet quite a lot of them manages to achieve this), and those who are canonically considered to be less physically attractive tend to be less arrogant and morally corrupted, as well."

sawno · Answer

If I say it I mean it, that can me looks + personality + soul rather than just looks but I don't use words I don't mean. If she is an 8 in looks and has a fantastic personality / soul she's beautiful to me. If she's an 7 in looks without further context ill say she looks pretty.

Levin · Answer

Mid is not a very nice way to label someone. And ultimately it's all subjective. Sure, there are hotties, but soon as they open their mouths some are just not. So it all flexes and bends depending on her personality, her habits and her lifestyle.

But the word beautiful implies I have some feelings for her. So I won't say that to just anyone.

MicahRaine · Answer

I'm always strictly honest, although I do try to be nice about it.

I remember at the last camp I went to as a teenager I told a girl who was crushing on me that "I'm sure plenty of guys here find you attractive, but I'm just not one of them"

strangeatcircleK · Answer

Sometimes, it's just a nice thing to say.

But for me, it's not about status or looks. It's about personality

I'll tell you right now,

I'll choose the girl with the unibrow over the super model based on her personality and interests alone.

I would rather enjoy a nice relaxing walk, playing a fun game or enjoying a coffee talking about poetry

Over watching the model bask in attention

It's all about personal meaningful interaction

kellytheman · Answer

To be honest most girls in there mid 30s are still attractive and beautiful as long they take care of themselves. I might want to get to know her but if I notice she is depressed I might ask what the matter and call her beautiful or pretty to brighten her day.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Would never come out with that, any girl being told she’s beautiful should see it as a blatant attempt to get in her pants.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I've found that life gets a lot easier in general when I have smooth relationships with people.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Ah a Star Wars Knights of the Old Republic MMO fan very nice. No angle if I tell someone they are beautiful I mean that truthfully.

teamvic · Answer

If they're doing that and they don't really think they're beautiful it means theyre tryna fuck her

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

I have a hard enough time telling 9's they are, let along 6's. I know it's just saying two words, but, something about just getting them out, seems to be such a challenge to me

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Well I don't really say that meaning it, I often speak that way just how I talk I like to complement lady's just incase nobody did already. But I hope your not asking this about yourself..

Anonymous · Answer

Unpopular opinion but they are usually easier to have in bed while not looking bad

MisterWack · Answer

Want to brighten her day.

Yannae · Answer

Why? Because mid tier is still good, if we say mid, there is high tier and low tier for me as well. And she's mid so she's pretty too.

PointlessNonsenseGuy · Answer

Probably a guy who tells a mid girl that she's beautiful is trying to bang her.

LiamJHayden · Answer

1. No such thing as a "10" at least in my reality. 2. If I tell her she's beautiful, it is because she is that way to me.

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

No problem with my angles do I want you to be naked and in my arms and then we fuck each other "DO I Want it? No doubt about it but I don't expect it there's the difference.

LiamS95 · Answer

Probably because I find her very attractive and I want her to feel good about herself.

Emmytexrex · Answer

If a guy compliments a mid girl that likely means he likes her

MacDaddyRico · Answer

Beauty is more than just looks. She has a beautiful disposition.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Your forgot another option "I'm just simping for her".

noohair · Answer

Mid Girl? So what are you? A top girl? Or just a snob.

dolemite58 · Answer

Why does she have to be a 10 to be called beautiful?

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