Really confused?

[Anonymous]

Not sure what to think, Everytime I approach this girl to talk, she's noticeably different to how she acts with others, for example Everytime I talk to her, there is this sudden character change and she becomes a lot quieter and barely says anything (she's usually very bubbly and confident with other people) I've noticed that she often looks at me and it's multiple times a night, sometimes she's confident enough to hold eye contact with me, sometimes averts her gaze, she also speaks with a really quiet voice but with other people her voice is normal (she's usually pretty loud). I've seen her lowering her head when she's walking past me and sometimes Compresses her lips, Does She hate me? I'm really confused

[HollyK21]

You’re not going to have the same relationship with her that everyone else has. I’ve totally encountered people who seem to be so alive and bubbly with others but don’t give me the same energy, whether it was at work, out with a group of friends, the bar, etc.


You just can’t worry so much about why she isn’t exactly how she is with other people towards you. You don’t know her history with them, and you aren’t around every single time to see how she’s interacting with others, you aren’t even watching her movements the entire night (unless you are).


All this to say, you shouldn’t assume this change in behavior you see has anything to do with you or your character, you just aren’t cool with her like that yet. You could ask her out if you wanted to change that though.

[Anonymous]

Why are u observing her so much. Don’t u think it’s making her uncomfortable