I’m so confused?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and I had an argument and we didn’t talk an a while then he came back and apologized and we talked about it, I’m not gonna lie i was still mad and I didn’t know what to say to him and it was late so i ended the conversation and told him i wanted to sleep after two days i texted him and that I appreciate his apology and I accepted it he thanked me and thats it

the other day out of the blue he texted me are you okay and i said yes wbu and he said yes I’m okay

and thats it we didn’t talk much im so confused like are we still together or did he moved on i really dont know

[bean2k21]

In this day and age, if things get heated I'm just going to walk away. My freedom is too valuable to engage myself in some argument with the opposite sex. You should consider yourself lucky that your boyfriend is smart enough to do this.

[boggboss]

Why would u assume u have broken up nothing was said to that it seems like u need to work on your communication skills

[Asker]

Because the argument we had was intense, and we hadn’t talk like in a month

[boggboss]

And he came back and apologised to which u didn't do so he is clearly making steps to fix what happened so what are u doing

[Asker]

I don’t know what Im suppose to do i really dont
Ps this is my first relationship and i dont have anyone to ask for advice thats why i came here

[boggboss]

How about u talk to him tell him how u feel and what u want and also apologise for your part in the argument u understand communication is a must for a working relationship

[Asker]

I’m sorry i think you’re gonna be mad at me but why should I apologize it was 100% his fault
(And i’m not saying it in a rude way, I’m actually asking why, like should i really apologize even if its his fault)

[boggboss]

So nothing u said in the argument u had u would say to him on a normal day

[Asker]

So i should apologize, thank you

[boggboss]

No I was asking when u had the argument I'm saying did u make any comment that u would say is fine?

[Asker]

I just confronted him about something and he said it was a joke and kept apologizing and i was so cold to him , actually it was over text so I didn’t yell or anything
Then we didn’t talk after what happened for a month then he came and apologized again

[Asker]

So should I apologize?

[boggboss]

Uf u said nothing that u wouldn't say in a calm state no

[ShadowMonarch]

Though it's not over yet, but things have started to go downhill,
I would advise you to clear things in a honest manner

[Changiis07]

He has not said he wants to break up

[spartan55]

Did you apologize?

[Asker]

Apologize for what?

[spartan55]

Well, you didn't say anything about what the fight was about, no details, nothing. So, as an uninformed audience, we should just automatically assume you did or said NOTHING to hurt your boyfriend, make things worse, etc? Very doubtful. It seems you have likely never been held accountable for any negative behavior, like most females. If you aren't communicating after HE apologized? Then this is on you.

[Anonymous]

Relax, you're still together.