Women, in a relationship, what do you think you personally have to offer for a man?

[kinggeorge007]

Not in general as a gender, I'm asking what "you" personally have.

[DishLady]

This is a tough one, so I'm going to borrow something that was said about me at a networking event yesterday, where the host very boisterously listed my qualities...

"Some girls are smart, which is ok, and some are pretty, which can also be nice, but THIS one is the full package... Look, she's blushing because she's humble. I tell you, she's so gracious, compassionate, graceful..." (You get the idea... we'll skip ahead bc he went on for quite a bit. By the end of the monologue I was beet red wishing I was anywhere else. It was too much -- SO over the top, in fact, that I convinced myself he was probably just buttering me up to get me to do something for his group...)

As far as a relationship goes... the qualities I'd actually mention about myself are...

• affirming my partner's strengths and managing weaknesses so they don't become his obstacles, encouraging him to be the best he's capable of being;
• making sure that everything we do together progresses towards something positive and life affirming;
• being honest, committed and faithful, encouraging openness and sharing of ideas, needs, etc.;
• being attentive and caring;
• empathetic to the feelings and vibes of those around me... social but not to an obsessive point;
• good at understanding guys (for the most part) and try to anticipate what my man really needs, especially during a challenging time;
• being passionate about my topics of interest, joyful to listen to his topics of interest... I love the sharing process;
• love getting a good laugh out of my partner one of my favorite things is coaxing my guy out of one of his cranky moods;
• love embarking on fun new adventures with my guy;
• ... and tend to have... a healthy physical drive. ;)

[TonyMetal___86]

These are good points, but who will do the cooking and who will do the house chores? 🤔

[DishLady]

@TonyMetal___86 You know? Because I KNOW where you're going with this, I won't tell you.

[TonyMetal___86]

😂😂
Miss dish, when are you going to make me a cake, i like cakes 😋 🍰

Also a big glass of cold fresh homedmade orange juice...

Don't worry you can sit with me while i'm eating, i give you the permission to sit with me while i'm eating your delicious food 🤣🤣

[DishLady]

@TonyMetal___86 I knew it. Smh... I cook, Tony, ok? But things like fresh OJ are available at the farmer's market... I like to support local farms and businesses.

I think "permission" is the red flag here, Tony. No cake for you.

[TonyMetal___86]

Hahaha, i forgot that the permission is only made for the girls against men 🤣🤣... dream on! 😏

Anyways, you're a good girl with a kind heart, you can't see me sad miss DISH 😌 i know that you have started baking it 😋

I'm just wondering, why the orange juice must be bought from the farmer's market? 🤔

I'll buy the fresh oranges and miss dish will extract the juice at home, put it in the freezer for awhile than "here you go your highness king tony" 🍹

I'll promote miss dish and make her the head chef of my castle 🤴🏻

[DishLady]

@TonyMetal___86 So I go sometimes to the Farmer's Market -- every week they come to town and have fresh fruits and vegetables (organic). But one guy sells the juices that he and his sister make for the week. Farmers, you know, struggle year-round, so it's the nice thing to do. That's all.

[Anonymous]

I love very strongly, and am generally kind and understanding, although not to a point of compromising myself.

Also I'm currently working towards a career that pays quite a lot, so in about eight years I'll be able to provide not just my personality, but also material resources.

[Anonymous]

Just came to read the comments from the triggered women who think "how dare you suggest I need to have anything to offer a man" after reading this question.

[Anonymous]

Just here to read triggered comments by lonely, bitter, sad men.

[Anonymous]

Tight 😺