Ladies: Do you appreciate being approached by men or are they mostly creeps?

[HawkPerception]

Appreciate being approached

They're mostly creeps

[Kelley1]

I don't see men as creeps. Therefore, I can appreciate being approached even if he is a guy I would not date.

[Kelley1]

Thank you for the MHO.

[HawkPerception]

Thank you for having that mentality towards guys.

[Kelley1]

I'm following the example of my mother.

[HawkPerception]

Your mother's a fine lady

[elizamichale1]

If they approach without being creepy then i dont mind

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[DizzyDesii]

I appreciate being approached by SINGLE men who are CLOSE in age 0-4 years. When they are super old or super young or have a bunch of kids (or even a girlfriend/wife/etc) i want no parts of it. I also hate if men approach me with their group of friends. It is uncomfortable. Approach me one on one

[HawkPerception]

But how are men that approach you supposed to know your preference? All girls aren't the same.

[DizzyDesii]

For those who don’t know, they’ll find out or already have because im pretty direct. If he's too old, i’ll say “dude you're old enough to be my dad/grandpa, please stop.” Told one dude that and he was like “well is your mom single instead?”. If he approaches with his friends, “i’ll pull him to the side and say, can we not make a scene in front of THE BOYS”

[4ngelic]

wouldn't say most are creeps but i dont like being approached. since 95% are trying to just clap some cheeks and i dont want that, i have to reject usually, and that's something i kinda dread doing

[HawkPerception]

You sound kind though and that's all we want.

[DishLady]

Well the creepy one in the pic would be a “no way.” But, if a guy neither startles a person nor acts oddly/overly aggressive towards their person of interest then a basic flirtatious approach should be fine.


Of course, read the room. If a girl is crying or looks at everything as if she just smelled some really stinky cheese, don’t approach THOSE girls.

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends on the way they are approaching me and how much we know each other... I definitely don't like to be approached by people I don't know...

[Ms_Facesitter]

I appreciate it, the majority of guys are decent men. I appreciate the gesture, but I'm a bit of an introvert and I have don't like giving my socials up after a little chat.

[HawkPerception]

I always wondered about that. You can always just block them if they become annoying. Why is giving up socials and possibly opening up the option of developing something more such a big deal?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm talking about men on the streets. I can't really block those.

Since you're talking online. Most of them are creeps alright, or "nice guys" aka men who act nice but turn out to be creeps as well. Online, a lot seem to be more aggressive with their words.

[MK1997]

Really depends on the person

[HawkPerception]

But in general... what's the answer?

[MK1997]

No I don't find it creepy