My sister suddenly started hating me, men from 9th grade. Now she is full grown married woman and she wants me back in her life. What changed her?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Hard to say. Why did she start hating you and men from 9th grade? Did she just hate all guys back then? Maybe she became a feminist when she was young an naive, and now that she is older and more mature she realizes how she let feminism cause her to hate men and now she regrets it.

[Asker]

Yes you are right. My aunt ( my mom's younger sister) brainwashed my sister to become a feminist. Since then she started hating me and all men.

[Serkee]

She became an adult.

[Asker]

But all these years we wasted our time in hating each other.

[Serkee]

Maybe, but there's nothing you can do about that now. Focus on what you can do, if you want to repair your relationship now is the time to start.

[Asker]

Yes we started repairing our relationship. She invited me to live in the city where she lives, she wants to help me find a job and a girlfriend. I live in another city and lost my job.