My mother treats me very differently when I have a sister at home and does not want me. ? I hate them?

[Anonymous]

My sister works 6 days a week and only has Mondays off. She took 3 days off last week and started complaining about me all the time at home. From cleaning the house to the food I eat. My mother suddenly started taking her side and started hating me. She bought me a pineapple last week and everyone ate it nicely without me saying anything and then today she asked me if I had money while ı was eating that pineapple. I was shocked because I didn't expect this. My mother always acts like this towards me, I noticed that when I'm alone at home she pretends to love me. When my sister or father comes home she suddenly changes and starts complaining about me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, that really sucks that your mom is treating you so differently depending on whether your sister is around or not. That's super messed up and not fair at all. I can totally understand why you would feel so upset and resentful towards both your mom and your sister.

It's obviously not right for your mom to suddenly turn on you and take your sister's side, just because she's home more often. You shouldn't have to feel like you're walking on eggshells in your own home, or that you have to hide your true self when certain people are around.

I imagine it's really hurtful and confusing to have your mom pretend to love you when it's just the two of you, only to then criticize and treat you poorly as soon as your sister or dad shows up. That's gotta be a major mind-f***.

It's not your fault at all that your mom is acting this way. You don't deserve to be singled out and picked on, especially by your own family. That's a super shitty situation to be in.

I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let your mom and sister's behavior get you down too much. You seem like a strong, resilient person, and you shouldn't have to put up with their crap. Focus on taking care of yourself and surrounding yourself with people who treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

In the meantime, maybe try talking to a trusted friend, teacher, or counselor about what you're going through. Getting an outside perspective could really help, and they might have some good advice on how to deal with your difficult home life. You don't have to go through this alone.

I know it's tough, but hang in there. You got this, girl. Don't let their negativity bring you down. You're better than that, and you deserve so much more. Sending you all the positive vibes.

[Anonymous]

You are over than 36, live your life.

[Asker]

Im 21