Why do some women get so angry and get out of control with their emotions when a guy mentions he only wants friend with benefits?

[Anonymous]

Why do some women get so angry and get out of control with their emotions when a guy mentions he only wants friends with benefits. It's almost like she's ready to get so violence on you and ready to hit you with a frying pan. Why do they get so bent out of shape. Also, they go from liking you to completely hate you like an instant or go to attack mode after saying the 3 words friends with benefits. I know it's very hard and very rare to find a woman who doesn't go full rage on you after mentioning friends with benefits and the topic.

When I'm around people, I don't mention politics or money, but when I'm around women, I don't bring up politics, money, and especially friends with benefits. If i talk about money and politics, then the conversation is gonna get ugly fast! but if friends with benefits comes up with the ladies. Then the conversation it gonna get extremely ugly very fast and hope your Medical Insurance it's paid off.

I remember walking home one night. A woman got so angry, and a guy brought up the friends with benefits topic. They were very cool and enjoying the conversation until the guy brought up the friend with benefits topic. She snapped and then started yelling and screaming her head off at the poor guy over the friends with benefits topic.

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I'm not looking for friends with benefits or looking for sex. I'm seeking behavior questions and answers over on this subject.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sex to men is just sex, an act meant to deal with the urge that could have just as easily been solved by masturbating. For women, sex is a connection and if you diminish an otherwise positive relationship by saying it only has value to you as a means of exclusively sexual pleasure, I imagine a lot of women find it demeaning.
To avoid this in the future, be blunt and direct. Make sure your profiles on any website where you interact with women sexually are clear in that you only want a friends with benefits relationship, and make sure to include that when you introduce yourself as well. Best to get it out of the way so you can both find what you want.

[Asker]

I'm not looking for friends with benefits or looking for sex. I'm seeking behavior questions and answers over on this subject. Thank you

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So if you’re not struggling to find someone to fuck you, who is that made you want to ask?

[Asker]

I'm not interested in short - or long-term relationships. I'm single, and my dating days are done a long time. I wanted to understand women behaviors over this subject.

[DishLady]

friends with benefits is an insult to any decent girl looking for a relationship.


If you’ve offered someone this “deal” and she glared at you or commented on what a douchy suggestion that was, it’s not some kind of hysterics. She’s upset you’re basically asking for sex with 0 commitment, 0 responsibility, 0 romance, 0 future… which are the things good women look for in a partner. If you think it’s somehow flattering in any way you’re completely delusional.

[Anonymous]

And this is why men can’t just be honest. Women want men to just be honest w them. Then you’re honest. Now you’re a POS. You’re a misogynist, a creep, etc, etc, etc. The dude was honest, but obviously she couldn’t handle the honesty. She felt rejected. She liked him. Wanted more than that. Felt rejected that he only sees her in that way, nothing more. So her feelings got her. To women sex is more than that. A female usually needs to be emotionally involved w a man to want to sleep w him. Men don’t. So telling her he only wants an friends with benefits is telling her hi has no emotions for her, no sort of attachment.

[MzAsh]

Because the friends with benefits dynamic mostly only benefits the man, not so much the woman. It supports the idea of men getting access to a woman’s body while robbing her of the emotional connection and intimacy.
It’s the same reason why men throw a complete hissy fit when it comes to friend zoning, or being cucked. And men do, go complete terrible twos on these matter.

[chrissykerdock]

in essence your even less than a prostitute when your friends with benefits with a man

[Anonymous]

Because it shows you only want sex and don't place any value on her as a person. Men like that are low quality so girls don't respond well. Does that describe you?

[Asker]

I'm seeking behavior questions and answers over on the subject. Thank you

[jahaims]

People act weird when they feel rejected

[Asker]

That makes more sense, showing that behavior.