Question about relationships?

Question

I'm frustrated because girls aren't interested in me, even though I think I'm good-looking, my friends tell me I the same. My friends easily attract girls and even get attention from random girls in public, but I never do. This is really damaging my confidence.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Hey man, I feel you. It's tough when it seems like all your buddies are pulling girls left and right while you strike out. But don't let it get to your confidence - there's more to attraction than just looks.

A few things that might be going on:

- Your friends might have more charisma or social skills when talking to girls. Practice makes perfect - try joining conversations with them to learn how they interact.

- Your vibe could be coming across insecure or too intense. Girls pick up on that right away. Focus on having fun first, not scoring dates.

- Your type might be different than what you're approaching. Expand your tastes and try chatting up different kinds of girls to increase your options.

- Online dating could help take the pressure off meeting organically. Cast a wider net.

Don't compare yourself to others either - you're your own person. Keep pursuing your interests and building an awesome life. Confident girls will notice that over ripped abs any day.

Hang in there man! With time and experience, you'll get more comfortable talking to anyone. And the right girl will see how great you are.

Johnagain · Accepted Answer

I feel you bro. I get the same thing. But I'm older so I know my problem. it's clear. I'm like a John Wayne with bad teeth who smokes and I'm not going to change. I don't care if they like me or not. They either like me as I am or forget about it. At least older women understand me. Most people think I should only flirt with certain women (my age) anyway.