Does stating a fact make me misogynist?

[Anonymous]

During the trendy question
Wether women prefer to be stuck in the wood with a bear or a man

I got into a heated argument with my feminist friends
They kept saying that men are dangerous and violent which I responded by saying they should say a group of men not all men
They kept mentioning a lot of incidents about serial killers and rapist men
and I kept mentioning stories about men sacrificing their lives for their wives and family
I also argued that women best chance against violent men are good men

They said women are strong now and that they don’t need men

The conversation ended in shock when I dropped a statement that if 100 % of men decided to be violent and rapists tomorrow, they is absolutely nothing that women can do to stop them

Now everyone is avoiding me 😂

I know it was too much but I felt offended especially because I got in a little fight once with a guy because he was trying to touch them and refused to leave so they asked me to help them

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Yeah kinda. You basically implied that all women are helpless to all men and that's simply not true. A select portion of you are weenies that could easily be taken out by some women. There have been women who have fought off their attackers already. It automatically discounts women who are armed being able to do anything about it.

[Asker]

I said 100 % of men
Some women can take the weenies
But the real dangerous men are big and scary even to other men

This also proves my point
So if a group of women can take down a group of women , does this mean that all women can fend men? No

Exactly the same , if a group of men are violent and rapists , does this mean that all men are violent are racest? Also no

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

But that's my point. 100% of men couldn't be effective in raping women. So your point is wrong. You said there was nothing women could do to stop them.. that's flat out wrong. Yes some men are going to get to some women in that scenario but not 100%.

And im not saying that all men are violent and racist, but it is true some are and it's enough of a trend to make some women nervous to be around men, especially those who have been victims in the past. Most of us have experienced unwelcome advances from men. Some of us have experienced perceived threats from men expecting sexual favors. Some of us have been drugged and raped when we had no reasonable expectations of it happening.

That's men doing that to us. So when some women choose the bear in that scenario, part of it makes sense. In my case, I'd still choose the man because I have a better chance of fighting back in the worst case scenario, but I get it for those who don't.

So yeah, in this case, your comment was unwarranted and offensive. You let your logic brain to prove a point (even if it isn't correct) override your logic brain of reading the room.

[Asker]

I am not trying
to annoy you or sound like a jerk

But less very little number of women would be
able to defend themselves? Would they be able to do it every time against every man?

You can get a glimpse of what will happen if 100% of men turned crazy?
Look at Afghanistan or ISIS
They were selling women like goods
And the women could do nothing about it

During the Middle Ages the Catholic Church murdered thousands of innocent women and nobody could have stopped them

Soldiers always sacked cities by raping the women once you eliminate the men protecting them

The safety of women is guaranteed by of the good men who are willing to defend women against violent men

A lot of women got physically hurt by men and that’s truly awful
But a lot of women also got hurt physically by other women

a lot of men got hurt by women and that is also awful we don’t say all women are horrible (some idiot men do )

Women who were attacked in past are nervous around men
We can’t eliminate every violent man in The world but we can increase the number of men who are willing to defend women

I am supposed to sit there and listen to women saying how horrible and violent men are even though I took punches trying to fend off violent men from my female friends

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

You just gave a ton of examples of how men have been horrible to women compared to the one time you defended a woman and then wonder why women are wary? You took it personally and you shouldn't have.

[Asker]

Yes
Some Men are horrible
But I think I am being put on the same category as them

My Idea
There is also good men
3 men took bullets for their girlfriend in the movie shooting of 2012 dark night rises
There is many other examples of men like that

The safety of women is achieved when these type of men are more than the violent men

If violent men got the upper hand they will be violent against women and other men
They will not be exclusively violent against women

Ok I shouldn’t take it personally
Would you also not take it personally if I said women are cheaters or attention seekers

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No I'd simply just say that's not all women as opposed to what you did which was say that if 100% of men decided to rape and commit violence against women there'd be nothing we can do about it.

That's why I said you took it personally.