What it be wrong to pour wine on him and his date?

[Anonymous]

I was treated poorly and less than by a guy I really liked and I felt he liked me.. we went on a date and he ghosted me… there’s a lot to the story.. there's a reason why I feel how I do… I think he wanted a higher caliber woman

he just had no regard to my feelings. It’s like I was disposed , ignored, demeaned

what makes it worse is it really stings—I had been following this gorgeous fitness model on Instagram for months, and now the software engineer guy is following her, and she follows him back. They even went on a wine tasting date this Sunday, while we just had a simple coffee date a few months back that I planned. It didn’t even feel like he really wanted to take me out.

[DaddyDiablo]

Yes it would be wrong to do so so definitely don't do that just refrain from acting a fool and just be the bigger person obviousoy this guy is probably missing on how good of a person you are n what a catch im sure you are! Coffee as a first date though isn't really ideal or worth going n doing in my opinion you wanna spice things up n really get them from the get go but definitely don't go all out either just go at a moderate pace n start off doing something you'll both enjoy like the movies or go out to the mall or I don't know something that you both will have fun at or whatever n then on you'll both want to go out again with one another so like only do coffee dates with certain types of people n of course certain points for dates like make it more of a
When you both are already dating and seeing each other!

[Asker]

Right coffee just meant he didn’t like me

[Anonymous]

Yes that was wrong. I u destined how you felt to a point, but that doesn’t give you the right to do that. Depending on what state you live in it could be considered assault. Women do these things all the time, but the law doesn’t enforce their rules on women as harshly as they do on men. That’s why women can still get away w crazy stuff like this. Just cause your feelings were hurt doesn’t mean you get to hurt people physically.

[Asker]

Men are predators doesn’t give him the right to hurt me just because it’s not visible

[Opinion Owner]

Stop trying to justify your actions. You know you were wrong. The other two people who answered said basically you were wrong.

[itsannalee]

He just doesn’t like u.
Move on, he is not even your boyfriend.
It’s not worth to chasing a guy who isn't interested in you. Love yourself.

[Asker]

What’s so bad about me?

[itsannalee]

Almost being a stalker on the guy you have a crush on.

[smurfwrangler]

have fun being arrested