A lot of girls say that I look like a woman, and every time they say that it annoys me. Is my reaction normal?

[Anonymous]

I'm proud to be a real man, and virile, but several girls have told me that I look like a woman, and that makes me angry.

[_Maya_]

So ignore them. Don't let other people define you which is what you are doing. You can try to tell me otherwise but if you weren't letting it get to you then you would not have bothered to post this on the internet. If you are concerned about your looks then change them. If you don't want to do that then don't. That is completely up to you and no matter what direction you go just be yourself. What other people say is not relevant unless you allow it to be. Are you right to be annoyed? Sure but don't let it bother you to the point you go anon on a website to complain about it. That to me is showing insecurity. Just avoid those girls in the future and move on. According to your profile age you could be almost thirty. Get some thicker skin.

[Laciejordan]

Hmm, I was gonna say it could be a compliment. I used tell guys they're "so pretty, they could be a girl". May sound like a weird compliment but my intentions were good! Kinda like a guy friend of mine had the most beautiful eye lashes, another one had the most beautiful hair color and I would say how I wish I had their eye lashes or hair. But, I see she called you a sissy. You have a right to be angry. Next time, just tell them they remind you of one of your uncle's, that happens to be a 50 yr old chain smoking alcoholic! If they give you a nasty reply, tell them they even talk like him! 🤣

[Anonymous]

Yes. They did it INTENTIONALLY. Ask yourself, how would they have felt, how would they have responded if you and many other guys said they look like a man. Don't get angry man. Laugh in thier face. Laugh at the very notion that they can't tell the difference. I probably would have said back to them, "so you're telling me you're a lesbian"? "Because I've seen the way you've been looking at me, licking your lips and whatnot... it's unsettling".🤣 Then walk away. Don't even allow her to respond.

[Berethor]

Without a pic it hard to tell, looking like woman can means looking pretty or looking weak.

[thearchjoker]

she called him a sissy so its definetly the latter

[SoJust]

Of course, in normal sex, such questions are not asked or said to people's faces, everyone should see each other as human beings.

[Abbycado]

I don't blame you for being annoyed.

[Asker]

She called me "Sissy". 😞

[Abbycado]

Tell her to take a hike.

[Julie4]

I hope for his sake he didn't react too emotionally to these statements.

Because if he reacts too emotionally, the girls will tell him he's reacting like a woman.

[thearchjoker]

Yeah you should be annoyed