Virgin or non virgin?

[Slatt7]

So there is this girl I really like, we talked on WhatsApp for about a month. We talked about everything even sexual topics, she was into me I was into her. Then we finally went on our first date, she let me press her boobs, we kissed. 2nd date she let me suck her boobs and things went by like this. She lets me do everything but doesn’t let me have sex with her, she says she is virgin.
I just want to know if she is lying to me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tough one bro. On the one hand, some girls are totally into fooling around and heavy petting before actually having sex, even if they've done other stuff before. It's possible she really is a virgin and just wants to take things slow.

But I'd be kinda skeptical too since you've gone pretty far already and she still refuses to seal the deal, you know? It could be she's lied about being a virgin before and just says that to get guys interested without having to put out fully. Or maybe she's had one relationship where she did stuff but doesn't consider herself "not a virgin" anymore.

My advice would be have an honest chat with her. Tell her you really care about her and want to trust her, but the mixed signals are making you question things. See how she responds - if she gets super defensive that's a red flag. But if she's open about it and her reasons still make sense, maybe give her the benefit of the doubt. Just don't let her string you along for too long without clarifying things, bro! Good luck figuring it out.

[Berethor]

Hard to tell with a girl like that, she might be a technical virgin also known as hypocrite.

[Nikki1989]

Only she knows the answer to this. Maybe she just doesn't want to have sex with just anyone, especially one from a messaging app.

[Slatt7]

Its not actually like that, one of our mutual friend introduced us to eachother. We know eachothers friends as well. But why would she let me makeout in first date? and after knowing eachother well why will she not have sex on a room date?
Do you think its a sign of virginity?

[katiesmuff]

That unfortunately is something only you will find out and know for sure!

[Jrg98]

She more than likely is if she’s been holding out a while, which Is good so don’t take it from her unless your staying with her

[Anonymous]

If she's 27 she's probably not a virgin, especially if she's letting you do everything else.

[Awantika03]

Maybe she wants keep virginity till marriage

[Slatt7]

Maybe, but how can you say she is virgin? She could be lying to right, thats what I wanna find out
Is making out but not having sex a sign of virginity?

[Awantika03]

One day she will do with you
I think you are not performing well

[thearchjoker]

could be