Do women a gentleman’s club want gentlemen or money?

[Anonymous]

I recently been to a gentleman’s club. Before I could even reach the bar for a drink, this one girl was all over me. I got my beverage and we had two dances, which cost me $20 each. And then she offered me to take her to a VIP room $580.00 for a 1/2 hour and $1000.00 for 1 hour. That’s rent money I’m giving her. And if she thought I was having sex with her, I would have said “Not until you’re my lawfully wedded wife.”

How about the next time I go to a gentleman’s club I charge a beautiful woman double of what she charges for a private room? The next time I go to a gentleman’s club and a beautiful woman charges me $500 for her to get “closer” with me, why don’t she pay me $1000 for a peace of my artwork, and I’ll give her $500 back for a room. Or if she charges $1000 to be “closer,” I’ll charge her $2000 for work of mine, and give her back $1000 for a room. Or if she charges me $3000 to get “closer,” I’ll charge her $6000 for work of mine and I’ll give her back for $3000 or $4000 for a full date, meal, desert and movie included if we’re that hungry and really want to get to know each other. And I’ll tell you she’ll be working her self to the bone like crazy to come up with my counterpart just like work my ass off to keep a roof over my head, food on my table, and clothes on my back.

The point is, are women at gentlemen’s clubs to looking for a profit? Or are they looking for gentlemen? Are women like what I saw last night looking for a one-night stand? Or are they looking for life? I have a good paying job and I work hard for my money. Are women at gentlemen’s clubs doing the same? Feel free to answer! And just remember, love don’t cost a thing!

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PS: There’s way more to life than having sex. I want a soulmate, not a hot spot. 😂

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You are a very strange person to me, no offense at all. How can you have the job you're saying you have, while, at the same time featuring questions that demonstrate fundamental ignorance about the world as it is? In other words, you look to me like an imaginary persona asking a question online. If I'm wrong, if you are genuine in your questions, I'm quite lost, because there is a huge amount of things to discuss lol

[BetaBucks]

You're that 30 year old virgin with autism, right? I can tell by the way you write lol.

These women are hustlers and you're the mark. They exist to take every dime of your money. They'll be as aggressive and coercive as they want. They don't care about you at all.

[Asker]

The only way I’ll pay $1,000 for a room with her is if she pays $2,000 for my artwork. I’ll give her back $1,000, and then I’ll have my $1,000.

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand your point here. Why should she be paying you anything? You’re in her place of work where her job is to be all over you the second you walk in and get her money. That’s what she wants, that’s what she’s working for. So why should she pay for your work? She didn’t go to you for it?

[Asker]

Why literally should she pay me in her place of ‘work’? Why literally will I have her pay $2000 for me and I give her back $1000 for a room in her ‘business’? Because she’s not actually working for what she wants. She just entertaining me for 1 night. I don’t make a lot of money with but it’s still a reward for me because I actually work hard at a meaningful government job, in the corporate world. My artwork is something I do on the side to make extra because it’s rough out there.

[Asker]

Men have to eat just like women have to eat.

[Opinion Owner]

And your artwork is you actually working? Because a lot of people out there would argue that creative jobs aren’t actual work since you’re basically sitting down enjoying a hobby and wanting to get paid for it.

[Opinion Owner]

If you can’t afford to be at the strip club then find another way to pass time or get a girlfriend if you’re lonely. But thinking you should be able to walk into someone else’s place of work and they should pay you for your presence there is just absolutely ridiculous and absurd.

[Asker]

I’m a clerical worker and I get paid a decent living with the hopes of being a law enforcement officer to get paid more. Art is my hobby that I want to sell and share. So that’s my paycheck plus my side hustle. And yes I am indeed lonely and looking for a mate. My money pays my bills. Me, do something for nothing? Now that’s absolutely ridiculous and absurd, don’t you think? But what is she doing with the $1000 that a man gave her for a one-nighter? You tell me. Hopefully it’s nothing absolutely ridiculous and absurd. 🤷‍♂️

[Opinion Owner]

She’s working, that is what she’s doing, and what she does with that money isn’t any of our business, just how your money isn’t my business nor does it matter if I think you deserve it or not. Like You don’t have to agree that what she does is a job or that it’s worth 1000s of dollars and that’s fine, then just don’t spend your money there. Don’t support that “job” and have a relationship instead. I don’t think gaming is a job either yet streamers sit online for hours raking in cash. If you made the sort of money she makes by doing what you love, you would have a much different opinion on other people finding non corporate ways of making lots of money.

[Asker]

What if I want to get to know her personally and intimately and have a relationship with her?

[Opinion Owner]

In most cases you won’t find that with a stripper while at her place of work. These women use men for money, it’s their literal job to do so.

[Asker]

💔😭

[Opinion Owner]

Why not find women another way?

[Asker]

That’s what I’m going to have to do. 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

What you won’t do, 50 other men in there will.

[Asker]

If 50 other men want to go broke so 1 woman can be rich, so be it. I have my worth.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you need to be in a strip club, not a gentleman’s club if money is a concern for you. Most of the time the man in that club has plenty of disposable income. You don’t fall in the tax bracket of the well off man so you would indeed go broke but men who frequent gentlemen’s club are making way more than your $60,000 a year.

[Asker]

Yeah, you didn’t understand any part of my post. Strip club, gentleman’s club. What’s the difference? Even if I was a billionaire, I would still be broke loving something or someone that doesn’t love me back.

[Opinion Owner]

First of all, if you were a respectable man you wouldn’t be in there in the first place. Strip clubs are for middle to low class men. Gentlemen’s clubs are for middle to high class men. How moronic are you to expect love from a place where men frequent specifically to get sexual gratification from women?
You realize these places wouldn’t exist without men who do spend money at them right? And you do realize a man with a bunch of money wouldn’t be complaining about the price of a woman at a gentleman’s club who’s half naked? And if $1000 is rent money to you, definitely shows your tax bracket because for a rich man, that’s a dinner and drinks buddy.

[Asker]

By the way, how much do you think women make a year doing strip teases having sex?

[Opinion Owner]

I know a woman who works at a gentleman’s club in Phoenix who doesn’t leave until she makes $1,000 and works 6 days a week. She even had a guy pay her $1,000 just to come to his mansion and talk to him for a few hours with no sec involved. you're living in Lala Land if you think there aren’t men out here who will pay for a hot woman’s whole existence.

[Opinion Owner]

Not to mention, this is with no sex involved.

[Asker]

Yeah, and $60,000 a year is groceries, room and board, and clothes.

[Asker]

I don’t want to just pay for her existence, I want to be the only one for her. And I can only hope she can be the only one for me. That’s more bigger than Alice in Lala Land don’t you think?

[Opinion Owner]

Then look for a woman more in your tax bracket.

[Asker]

I hope I find her some day.

[DryGermanGuy]

"There is a sucker born every minute."

- P. T. Barnum

[Asker]

Facts!

[DrPepper12]

If you don't know the score why are you playing the game? They're at work. You're the client! What's the confusion?

Never understood and never will understand strip clubs. I even declined for bachelor parties that's how dumb I think they are!!

Go in sober, horny & got cash.
Leave drunk, horny & no cash!

Overpriced. Can't touch. Your SO doesn't want you there and you've been fighting about it all week. Make it make sense!!

[Asker]

Ok. I’ll make it make sense. I want to get to know her personally and intimately and not have sex until marriage. Is that possible?

[DrPepper12]

Not without living together and having sex for a year plus

[Asker]

Yeah those are obvious dealbreakers, sorry.

[Asker]

And plus raw sex ordinarily leads to pregnancy. How can either of us afford to feed a baby when we can’t even afford to feed ourselves? No way is she having a baby without the father of the baby being in the baby’s life.

[AviatorTom]

Women in a gentleman's club... that is their job, and the way they make money is by having customers (like you) give them tips, pay for table dances and for time in the VIP room.

If you don't like that, then don't go to the club.

[Asker]

The only way I’ll pay $1,000 for a room with her is if she pays $2,000 for my artwork. I’ll give her back $1,000, and then I’ll have my $1,000.

[TheWombRaider]

How about don't go to a strip club clearly the bitches there don't like you , love you, or find you attractive in any way. They're only there for the money it's their job. That's why you don't give them any fucking money. If anything you rip a bunch of $1 bills in half and give her a half dollars. I don't go to strip clubs I don't even enjoy them I can't sit she giving myself some stupid bitch money that I don't care about and she doesn't care about me

[Anonymous]

There's an old saying in the stripping game "you're not going to get laid at the strip club, but you're going to get f***ed there". Of course it's about the money. Most strippers flat out hate you. They might be somewhat attracted to you, but she's got a headfull of trauma so she probably attracted to her dad as well. So like that means anything.😆

[LiamJHayden]

One of my friends is a lesbian. She and her current girlfriend are both dancers at a "Gentleman's Club," They want the money.

[Asker]

And what do they usually plan to do with the money they “earned?” You’ll noticed that ‘earned’ is in quotation marks.

[Sharkstealth]

Beautiful girls arnt strippers anymore because of the internet. The reason they charge so much is because they get very few customers.

[BetaBucks]

Beautiful strippers went from uncommon, to rare to unicorn status, in one single generation. My friends made me go to a club last summer and none of them were above a 7. And this was in Las Vegas, where they're supposed to have the most beautiful girls.

[Redstang88]

What exactly do you expect going to a stripclub? They’re after your money Einstein

[Asker]

Of course. Since we’re living in the age of equality, why not I be after her’s as well. I’ll literally pay her $1000 for a room if she literally pays $2000 for a piece of my artwork.

[Redstang88]

Good luck with that

[Asker]

Thank You 😊

[Anonymous]

Money, gentleman's club is just trying to class the place up

[Asker]

Well they doing a good job.

[RavVid]

It is money but they can like you.

[Asker]

The only way I’ll pay $1,000 for a room with her is if she pays $2,000 for my artwork. I’ll give her back $1,000, and then I’ll have my $1,000.