Guys, would you mind if your girl was bisexual?

[Alchemizt]

Do you ever feel like she might be secretly into one of her so called besities? Or something is happening in the girls' night? Or she calls one of her friends wifey and the other girl gives her a dyke smile? Or... I'll stop right there.

Yeah, I'm okay

I might not be okay

[Finchie40]

I was in a relationship with a bi sexual girl that was honest with me from the beginning, so I was cool with it , it’s not cool, if she comes off as straight inn the beginning , then later down the road she changes her mind , To me that is cheating , if she ended up hooking up with another girl behind your back. I will lose all respect for her and kick her to the curb. As for the honest bi sexual girl I was with , her and I both agreed upon boundaries in the beginning , she was honest to me that she fools around with her one girlfriend and wanted to introduce me to her , which she did and then one thing lead to another and the 3 of us were in bed. Things were great for awhile until her girlfriend started drama and started lying about things , Like it was her mission to break us apart. And sadly she got her wish. So my advice is to never bring a 3rd wheel into a relationship if you truly want your relationship to last. Relationships are meant for 2 people not 3 , if you want to experience a 3some only do it with FWB’s not with your committed partner

[backdoorman]

Very well said. I've been burned myself and it destroyed a relationship I was very invested in. The way I see it, if a woman is sexually attracted to both men and women, I as a man can only satisfy half of that equation. Nothing at all against bisexual women, but I personally don't want to be in that position again. I'm a two-person relationship kind of guy.

[Finchie40]

Yea , she is in the wrong if she didn’t tell you from the beginning

[HawkPerception]

Yes I would mind. My first 2 exes told me they were bi only towards the end of our relationships and then left me and ended up with girls. I've had terrible experiences with bi girls.

My 3rd and last ex was fully straight and just as against the rainbow community as I am. That was the most compatible I was with my partner's views and it was great while it lasted.

[Iron_Man]

Did your two Bi girlfriends went threesomes

[Iron_Man]

Want

[HawkPerception]

Not during our relationship, no.

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok thanks for responding back

[RebelinSteel]

Okay, dating a bisexual girl is like dating any other girl, there is this thing called trust n respect in a relationship. Just because a person is bisexual does not mean they will cheat or do this fantasy shit that guys appear to think all bisexual girls have. Also what actual fuck is a dyke smile.

[Alchemizt]

Lol ignore that dyke smile thing, it's something I found from Reddit. It's also known as lesbian smile.

[RebelinSteel]

Equally the lesbian smile, likely made up by teens that are not allowed out of the basement.

[nothingtosee]

I wouldn't mind. In fact, i would encourage her to find a girlfriend, or a female friends with benefits. I would ask that if she found someone, to see if she would be interested in the three of us dating. I like the idea of the three of us becoming really good friends and sharing my girlfriend with her. I like the idea of giving each of the women a threesome, making each one the center of attention. I like the idea of my girlfriend telling me all about her sex life with her friends with benefits as we have sex.

[MasterRA]

I have a theory that a woman is naturally bisexual, especially because of her way of being with other women, she tends to be more liberal with other women and can do hotter things with them, so for my concept that a possible girlfriend of mine who at first tells me she is straight and then I find out that she really is bisexual would not create any problem for me, it is more likely that she would want to experience a threesome with me and another woman, since she would know that I am completely straight and would not have a threesome with another man, so it is more beneficial for my girlfriend to be bisexual to have more "games" more ardent sexual, besides what man does not watch lesbian porn? Seeing my "girlfriend" kissing in front of me with another woman, ufff that would be fabulous

[hahahmm]

It's not a crime for a person to have thoughts. Actions are another story tho. I expect my wife to be loyal to me. There is zero room for being with anybody else. And likewise I am loyal to her. It's not a grey area. Also it's like nuclear war... if one spouse 'launches' the other has the right to launch. It's destructive to the relationship.

[EzraIsShy76028]

As long as she was respectful to me, I couldn't care less.

Being bi doesn't give an excuse to cheat, but other than that it's the same as being with a straight girl.

It would probably mean that she would watch lesbian porn besides just straight porn, but that also doesn't bother me.

[sawno]

Not at all, but on the condition I am the primary person she loves / wants to be with. I don't want to be the side guy while she really prefers girls. If she wanted to have a threesome in the relationship i'd be open to that so she can have a side I can't fulfill, but otherwise I want things to be monogamous. It would be up to her.

[backdoorman]

Yeah, I would mind. My ex was bi (I didn't know if at the time, and maybe she didn't realize either, I don't know) and she cheated on me with another woman. A lot, it turns out. Her defense when I found out was that it wasn't really cheating because it wasn't with a man. I think a lot of bisexual women have that same mentality. Not all, of course. But once bitten, twice shy, I guess. But I don't want to date a woman again whose sexual needs I as a man can't satisfy 100%.

[DudeDiligence]

Yes it would bother me. I'm a 100% heterosexual guy looking for a serious relationship with a 100% heterosexual woman to start a family with. That's why I date. I'm not into threesomes or any of that stuff (no judgment) so I have no use for a bisexual woman.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. I can't be with a woman who is a lesbian. No way.

[mrkdvsn]

With my wife being a Vatican One Catholic, there's no way that she is going to be partially homosexual, no matter whether I mind or not... which I would.

[OlderAndWiser]

I married a bisexual woman and she cheated on me with another woman. I'll never make that mistake again.

[ManOnFire]

Would not work for me. I have some bi female friends, and I respect what they do/are, but I could not be in a relationship with one.

[Berethor]

Yea it can be risky, but girl on girl don't count, and there is chance for FFM threesome.

[msc545]

People are what they are, including their sexuality. It's not something that I would be upset about or feel jealous about it at all. The only thing would be that I would hope that it wouldn't interfere with our relationship.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Asexual would be a problem, I reckon. A puzzling problem.

[RavVid]

Potentially she can get off with everyone so kinda would mind most likely

[Richarding]

No, no problem. I am active top for women. Passive bottom for men. I am also bisexual.

[paledreams]

I wouldn't be okay with it - they're more likely (per studies, not guaranteed) to like anal and oral - neither are my things 👀🍈🍈🌕🌕

[paledreams]

I obviously voted not 🚫

[jeremy_09]

That would be pretty hot if the 3 of us could be together, they could be together, I could be with either girl, or both, depending on who's in what mood.

[Likes2drive]

I guess not, If I notice an attractive woman she will probably be checking her out too and not say and maybe comment on her looks without me saying anything

[thearchjoker]

I don't mind. It would make threesomes sexier too

[art84]

Definitely not though I would fear the girl leaving me for another girl/guy if she had a partner on the side.

[Surferboi_02]

I honestly would have to back down because truly a guy can't compete with another girl unless that girl is straight up ugly.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

I would have to *really* like her. No hate or disrespect, but a girl being bisexual isn't a plus to me.

[scottlonch]

As long as it's with another girl and no real emotions were formed, I'd be okay with it. I even told my wife who is bicarious, if she wants to hookup with another girl, I'm okay with it.

[DextroShade]

Only acceptable if she's bringing girls home for threesomes, otherwise it's HARAM!

[zagor]

Not if she only got with hot girls and let me watch.

[Iron_Man]

No I’m not OK with it

[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

It would be okay if her female friends were attractive, and she was willing to share.

[straightmax12]

If my girlfriend is bisexual, it increases the chance of having a threesome with another woman.