Would you consider dating a bisexual girl?

[LiveCuriosity]

Yes, of course

Never, even over my dead body

[sage0731]

Absolutely yes. My current girlfriend is bi and usually leans towards girls. That doesn't bother me in the slightest. My more mature opinion is that I know she loves me and I love her and that's all that matters. We have been together almost a year now and I haven't ever met anyone so amazing and perfect for me.

My less than mature opinion is that her being bi might give me a slight chance at a 3way with another girl. As much as I know that this is my "little head" talking, in my case it's not a big deal since she prefers women and is as big of a sex addict as I am lol.

[ShesAmerican]

lool like that's gonna happen, living way too much in the fantasy porn world

[sage0731]

Normally I would agree with that lol. I can guarantee it's not an uncommon male fantasy though lol.

In this case it's not just a fantasy. She brought it up surprisingly to me lol. We talked it through and found a few guidelines we both agreed on so neither one of us has to worry about the other. We might not be like normal couples but we trust each other and haven't had any problems so far.

[ShesAmerican]

cool

[MScifiwriter]

I'd consider it, so long as she was serious about our relationship, to the point of considering marriage. I'm not the casual type of dater, if I date a woman it's for the eventual possiblity that we might get married. So as long as she commits to a relationship with me and no cheat what-so-ever.

If in addition to our relationship, she also wanted to be have a relationship with a girl. She and I would have to set ground rules, because girl or guy, cheating is cheating. But considering that she's bisexual, she and I would have to figure something out.

[19magic]

I don't get a lot of the no's from guys, a lot of them saying they won't be a side bloke, but being bisexual doesn't mean that, it just means you find both genders sexually appealing not that your gunna cheat or suddenly cheat on them, if they do cheat it's cus they're selfish people who don't care enough about each other or their relationship to work it out not cus that person happens to be bi,
My only reason I'll probably not date a bi guy is cus it's likely I won't find him attractive in the first place therefore wouldn't date him

[tlgannon]

Great scene from House, M. D. -
Dr. Foreman: Don't you miss other women?
Dr. Hadley: Don't you?

[Halligan]

I would have, but now I’m married.

Being bi, pan, or demi doesn’t automatically mean you can’t be monogamous. I never had a threesome, even though I was offered.

My husband had no fear of me cheating, but he does enjoy that he can point out attractive people and I don’t freak out. We can rate people together.

[pingiluv]

I think people are more open to women being bisexual than a man being bisexual. So if you’re bi and a girl I think you have better chances than being a guy and being bisexual

[Markfish]

all women are bi, almost no men are bi.

[Logorithim]

Yes, provided she meets my standard criteria for a girlfriend.

[FMJ_Guy]

I have, and it isn't a big deal!! Some women like men, and women, and it isn't like the porn movies, and threesomes!! Never did that, or expected it!!
I dated one in college, and sometimes she wanted to be with her girlfriend, and other times she wanted to be with me, and totally heterosexual!
Who am I to judge? She was an amazing person, and we dated, and I 'shared' her with her girlfriend, and it didn't bother me. I knew her girlfriend, and I liked her as a person, but she was very much, oh, what is the accepted word, now, for a woman that prefers women? I don't want to offend anyone!

[VaIiant]

Wait? You were in an open relationship? Huh?

[Djaay]

@VaIiant. Why does that ring your bell ?

[tlgannon]

"Lesbian" is still perfectly acceptable AFAIK.

[FMJ_Guy]

@VaIiant I hate to name things, and say that! When we were together, she was with me, totally, and it was amazing. She also liked a girl, and she explained it that she had feelings with that girl that she liked, and I didn't give her. Not like I wasn't doing something, but for her, it was 'different' with her girlfriend, than it was with me.
I knew both of them, and it was college, the time you experiment, as they say.
What is so confusing about a man and a woman both liking the same Bisexual woman, knowing each other, and being totally OK with the shared relations?

[VaIiant]

Because the point of dating is/should be marriage, and you can’t be married to two women (unless that’s your religion) without there being a side ho.

[FMJ_Guy]

@VaIiant Who says that dating has to be for marriage? You are entitled to your beliefs, but a lot of other people don't feel that way.

[VaIiant]

If dating is the game, isn't marriage winning?

[FMJ_Guy]

@VaIiant What about just having a close, trusted companion? Someone to care about, that likes/loves you? Why does it have to be marriage?

[VaIiant]

If you're not into marriage thats cool, I just think emotional & phsyical intimacy should be reserved for your SO. in my opinion if its not it loses its value.

[FMJ_Guy]

@VaIiant But you can have that, the intimacy, the caring, the love, without needing some formal thing, some paper saying it! Maybe it's just my personal beleifs

[tlgannon]

I've always kind of felt like needing a formal contract is a sign of poor trust and a weak relationship.

I've come to understand more of the legal implications, so I'm not strictly opposed to marriage like I used to be, but those are arbitrary details of our specific social environment. Ideally, it wouldn't be necessary.

[ryancg]

Yeah, don't see why it would even matter. I would still want the relationship to be just the two of us, her being attracted to girls wouldn't change that. None of that stupid threesome crap that some people seem to think is guaranteed to happen just because she's bi.

[RadCanadianMan]

I broke up with my exs because I told them up front they needed to be bi and be open for more. They all said they were down but ended up wasting my time cause they were trying to change me. I'm starting to think being single and getting a sugar baby is cheaper than a girlfriend and I'd have a much easier time negotiating lol.

[MCheetah]

FUCK NO! Never! Never ever! I can't think of too many things more degrading than being a straight man dating a lesbian. It's like he ultimate cuck move. And well, I'm not into humiliation fetishes or FinDom (fin-DUMB). If I date someone, she needs to actually be attracted to men, let alone men like me. I'll never understand simps and cucks who have this weird lesbian fetish.

[despop]

Obviously. What problem would I have with it? It's not my business who she's dated before me, or who she'll date after me. And if the relationship is such that she should want to see other people, I don't care who they are, either, unless she wants me to.

[normalice]

sure. I would even give her my blessings in pursuing other women, if she wants.

Girls are sexy. I understand the need to touch one all too well. But I can't be a girl for her. I can't even pretend to be interested or competitive about filling that void.

I would ask her not to use oversize toys, though..

[Itz_Lewiz]

This is what i don’t understand. If 85% of men are willing to date a bi girl ( me included) then why do girl not wanna date a bi guy whats the difference between a bi guy and a bi girl apart from them both obviously being of different sex ( eg male/ female)

[SirRexington]

Consider? Possibly.

Go through with it? Probably not.

I want a girl who knows what she wants. If she were to break up with me or cheat on me with a guy I'd be pissed beyond comprehension, but if she broke up/ cheated on me with a girl... I don't think I could go on living.

[carameltwin]

How does being bisexual mean she doesn't know what she wants?

[Anonymous]

I bisexual girl once asked me out when we had just met... abd to me it was shocking to know that she already has a girlfriend and her girlfriend won't mind having a boyfriend together...
Anyway i denied for a relationship but we spend some time as friends... it then did not work out because i had to leave the town but getting into a polyamorous relationship is not a thing for me!

[Anonymous]

Every girl these days is at least bicurious; some 60% of women admit to having had prior sexual experience with other girls. So yes, I would, because I don't have a choice- if I refused to, there'd be no girls left to date. That's just the way of the modern world we live in.

[laurieluvsit]

I do now :)

[Chendo]

I like how you almost accompany your responses with a sexy photo. its a nice touch

[laurieluvsit]

@Chendo Thank you Mr Chendo, you are very sweet!

[silverqueen]

I’m straight so, never, not even over my dead body 😂

[LiveCuriosity]

Hahahaha thanks.

[soul1110]

I'm more curious as to why this question is a thing among bisexual people. Like, are youmimplying there's something I should be concerned about? Yes, you like both genders- I don't how that's all too differennt from having a heterosexual partner who still has the potential to hook up with a ton of other options.

[UptightLight]

Consider yes. Date? No. They outperform me sexually. No anal play or stimulation for me and I know women are daring so I know they do some adventurous things. Whether they brush their teeth or not some things can not go overlooked.

[Justacatlady]

Yes I would being that I am.
I hate that in the comments people are writing that all women are bisexual: Not true
That all bisexual women will have threesome: Not true

[Wolframium]

Nope. No chance in hell. Do you know why? It’s me who we talking about. With my luck, she walk away from me with girl, who is hot.
And I can already see the comments from guys. “He he, threesome, dude” “. God, you’re so…simple.

[Iron_Man]

That's out of the question what's the point? The guys that do that are looking for threesomes. No serious guys are going to take home a bisexual girl to meet their mother

[jack187625]

Why not?

[Iron_Man]

Why do you really think?

[maiave]

What’s wrong with you man

[Iron_Man]

the question is whats wrong with you if you have to ask me something like that

[maiave]

I mean you seriously think the only purpose of being around a bisexual woman is threesome? Because that’s all to her? No personality? No nothing?

[Pink934]

I agree with you dude, nice to see you have some morals :) good fella!

[jack187625]

I honestly can't think of a reason. Unless your parent's think there is something wrong with bisexual women?

[Iron_Man]

Thanks

[desertflwr]

Hi there I'm a bisexual girl who's boyfriend brought her home to meet his mother lol. His entire family actually, his grandmother loves me. :)
He's nearly moved in with me and we're very serious. :)

[Iron_Man]

that's a million to one shot he's desperate

[desertflwr]

He's actually the type of guy who chooses not to date much unless he finds the girl to be exceptional and see's a future with her. I'm kinda friend's with his ex girlfriend so I can confirm this to be true. :)

[Iron_Man]

Is he religious?

[desertflwr]

Yup. He's pretty religious. We are a part of different religions though.

[Iron_Man]

That's shocking is he a Christian?

[desertflwr]

Yes he is.

[Iron_Man]

That's really surprising

[desertflwr]

He's not as stuck up or bigoted as some people :)

[Iron_Man]

That has nothing to do with it. It's about following God's laws

[maiave]

So you’re homophobic?

[maiave]

& biphobic? You’re saying you’re one of those Christians that thinks gay is wrong because God says so?

[Iron_Man]

It's an Abomination it's written in the Bible plus I don't care for it myself

[Pink934]

If people actually took God's law seriously, the whole world would be a better place. What God says goes in my opinion.

[Iron_Man]

Well said pink

[maiave]

Gosh. Christians have earned such a bad reputation because of people like you. You think homosexuality is something that should be shamed because it says so in the bible? Well, hating is also a sin. And if you’re gonna use this shitty excuse to disrespect human beings than I’m going to take for granted that you do the following things as well, since it say you should in the bible:

Don’t drink alcohol. Don’t have sex before marriage. Don’t eat cheeseburgers, shellfish or pork. Don’t wear jewellery. Don’t masturbate. Don’t remarry after a divorce. Do you really take God’s law seriously yourself?

[jack187625]

Well said @maiave! If every threw of the yoke of religion the whole world would be a better place.

[Pink934]

Nobody said anything about hating homosexuals, but you can hope that they might change their behaviour.

Also it says in the bible a little wine is good for the stomach - also, Jesus drank wine himself so... it is actually allowed. Sex before marriage just defiles God's plan for us all and causes people to take sex for granted. Also, cheeseburgers, pork and shellfish are fine these days - we aren't living in Old Testament times anymore. Dunno where on earth you got the jewellery thing from, but ok. Why masturbate when you're designed not to have sex with yourself, but with your male/female spouse? And actually remarrying after divorce is allowed, providing you weren't the one who instigated the divorce.

So yeah, I take it very seriously :).

[Iron_Man]

I sure hope that you're not Swedish because that's disappointing to me because of your actions. You are disrespectful you have no respect for God and his right ways of life. You have no idea what you're talking about you hold no weight here. I've seen your post you're swearing and cussing. You disgust me.

[sugarchateau]

As a bi-sexual myself, I'd have to say...

[lovershinbob]

Hi sexy

[Markfish]

all women are bisexual

[cerebrum]

Been there, done that. So sure, nothing wrong with that. I never even thought about it much, and don't see any reason why it would bother someone.