Would you date a bisexual?

[msk3k3xx]

Yes

No

[Realistic07]

For me I really wouldn’t care one way or the other. Im straight and if she’s not, but for whatever reason is with me then clearly with all the choices in the world she wants to be with me. I understand that sexuality is a bog concern for many, but someone’s sexuality isn’t a factor in determining someone’s soul.


For me the only thing I’d really care about is who she is as a person, and the fact that she’s willing to be with me for who i am as a person. Everything else is simply a non-factor or non-important insecurity. Fortunately im a very secure person with and in myself, and I simply don’t feel the need to be insecure. Really insecurity just brings unnecessary drama where there otherwise it’s not.


From what I believe the important thing in any relationship is open communication, and understanding. Don’t get me wrong those two concepts may seem very simple at times, but at other moments can be very complicated. That being said it would be mine, and whoever I’m with responsibility to address those complexities in a constructive manner.


Well that’s my two cents on the matter.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I'm really sick of this idea that bisexuals are riskier to date because they have more options. That just means that they could have gone out with anyone and they still picked you. Cheating isn't a matter of oppertunity, it's a personality flaw. Sexuality doesn't play into the likelihood that they will remain loyal or not.
To answer the question, yes I would date a bisexual. I've done it twice in the past and I was never even a little worried about infidelity

[ello2021]

The question is did they cheat on you or you weren't aware😌

[VanillaSalt]

To me bisexual means not just men but women are my rivals... I’m not looking for that.

[Juxtapose]

I'm bi and can confirm that it is super easy to not cheat. Cheating will only happen if you have a deep personality flaw.

The people responding to this may want to look inward if they are so convinced that cheating is inevitable.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@Juxtapose Exactly, thank you.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@ello2021 That's a question in every relationship, not just with a bisexual. What's your point?

[VanillaSalt]

You assume everyone you meet aren’t flawed?

[ello2021]

What I am saying most bisexual people are confused with their sexuality so most of the time they crave what's not in their hands and cheat.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@ello2021 That's another blatantly untrue stereotype

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@VanillaSalt No, but I don't assume additional flaws based on sexuality

[ello2021]

I believe in what makes sense to me and what I did makes sense and I don't believe in stereotyping

[VanillaSalt]

I believe in stereotyping. Not all black men so drugs or are violent. Not all white druggies choice drug is meth. Not all democrats support abortion. Not all Asians are short... but in every case thinking they are you’ll be right more often than not. It’s dangerous but every bad experience being with it an expectation to help you avoid it in the future... pattern recognition.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@ello2021 you don't believe in stereotyping, yet you have no problem saying bisexuals are confused amd likely to cheat?

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@VanillaSalt What pattern? Bisexuals would have to actually cheat more often for there to be a pattern, and they don't

[VanillaSalt]

I was commenting on your stereotype comment.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@VanillaSalt Okay, well the stereotype I was commenting on, that bisexuals are confused about their sexuality, is just as unlikely to give you the pattern you're looking for

[Juxtapose]

Just because we like both sexes does not mean we are confused dude.

It's possible to to like men and women, or possible to not like either.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

@Juxtapose Right!

[VanillaSalt]

But bisexuals will sleep with both men and women giving them double the opportunity. Every man and woman’s a potential rival. Besides people today don’t give much weight to marriage and there’s easy ways out. I don’t want a person that has an easy way out with every person. What’s more I don’t like the idea of a a person that can sleep with just about anyone. Even if they gave standards it seems like they don’t.

I can’t understand it. I don’t need to understand it, I don’t want to understand it.

[lilyanony1]

As a woman it's something I've really struggled with there are things sexually I'm not prepared to do. So knowing that man I'm with has would put me off.
Years ago when I was more trusting I think sexually I was more open and I did consider it but I realise a lot of men don't value women like me, they see me as a fun time girl. Fine but why does my sexuality confine me to a stereotype.
So may sound judgy but I think maybe I need to find someone that matches my values rather than actively seeking someone just for their sexually fluidity.
I want a matching of minds and soul everything else is fluff.
Catch my drift.

[Sarahr123]

I’m straight and with a straight man and would never be with a bisexual because I don’t want a man who is attracted to men or has been fucked in the bum or has sucked dick. My boyfriend also isn’t interested in girls who want to eat pussies or get wet by looking at girls.

[faithie_Artist]

Yeah it’s definitely a major turn off for me. The world is already competitive enough with one gender. I don’t want to compete with both genders.

[Sarahr123]

@faithie_Artist For me it is not really much about competing. I am very secure in myself and I don’t wanna be with someone who expects me to compete. I find it off putting if a man gets turned on by me though like imagine if he were having sex with you but thinking about having sex with a man...😢

[Tyme1313]

Ok, as a bisexual guy, there are two things to explain. Being bi doesn’t mean you are the receptive partner. Many bisexual guys are exclusively the top penetrating partner. Sucking dick and eating pussy, Bi, or straight, isn’t fun. I can’t understand anyone actually enjoying the act of giving oral sex. It’s just something you do for the enjoyment of your partner. Strangely enough, I find men are typically more concerned with their partners enjoyment then women are.

Finally, I can assure you, no bisexual guy is having sex with a woman, and thinking about a man. The physicality between men and women make that damn near impossible. They may be fantasizing about another woman, but they aren’t imagining a guy.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No because they would have urges, desires I wouldn't be able to fulfill for them, and I'm not into open relationships... So I would only date someone that's into females only because I know I could fulfill their sexual needs, and desires...

[Sabretooth]

hot in fantasy... but not in real life.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Sabretooth well not hot in fantasy for me

[Sabretooth]

mean like in sex stories and games.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Sabretooth ooohhh okay lolol

[Sabretooth]

...''brains''... oy.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Sabretooth blonde moment 🤣🤣

[Sabretooth]

heh. once really pissed a girl off for saying that she destroyed the theory that pretty girl couldn't be smart. maybe smart-but not all there.

[Floppy2112]

lol... you said 'urges'...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Floppy2112 wouldn't they tho 🤔 for men? That's something I can't help them with... And I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I gotta worry if they having sex with men behind my back 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Floppy2112]

Oh, I think your right. I am not convinced about the whole bi-sexual thing anyways. It's definitely different between men and women. And this I think is why you cannot satisfy him because he is gay first and just doesn't mind women. Strait men, don't just not mind other men, when they cannot get a woman. So, they are gay first and women are second.
Actually, best of both worlds if you are in to that type of thing.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Floppy2112 oh I think I agree with you there... All the more reason... I don't want to be someone's second choice.. I want to be their first, their only

[Floppy2112]

Of course...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Floppy2112 👍👍👍

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol what about gender equality brains you are biased towards men 🤠😜.

You should love both genders equally 😜😂😉

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Aakash_Hangargi I do love men, so what 🤷🏼‍♀️ and I have no problem with gay men, but umm I'm not a guy I'm a straight female who wants a straight male, how's that not right?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol i didn't say wrong or right, it was a joke bc you always say you should treat both genders same so, I think bring bisexual is the answer for that hitting on all 😅😜

[Floppy2112]

@Aakash_Hangargi Tsk, tsk... You're not keeping up with woke-ology. Didn't you get a pamphlet from the church? You cannot say 'gender' anymore. It's taboo.

[Anonymous]

I feel that dating a person who's bisexual might add more competition to the relationship, but then not really, it's the same as dating someone who's heterosexual. I like men, but it doesn't mean that if there are 10 men, I would like them all. If I was to date a man who like men and women, it doesn't mean that he would be attracted to all 10 men and 10 women that he interacted with.

I just don't know if dating a man who liked men and women would make him feel that he wished he was with a man when he was with me. Maybe not, he made his choice just like when I made my choice to be with a man, instead of any of the other 2 men I've interacted in my life.

[joshua_francis]

Yes I would date a bisexual girl. I do think girl on girl is hot. And I'd get relaxed with her bringing her 'friends' back. Well could be friends or someome she likes or an ex (only if girl). Then could watch or even better have a threesome. I guess there would be more to talk about in terms of past relationships if she's had them with both genders.

Also it's hard to explain but Id be more protective over a straight girl than bisexual one. As I know of more people who been physically hurt by men. And also the sex if different for guy girl and girl girl so be less jealous of a bisexual girlfriend as been penentrated by less guys

[CaliDad]

Yes. Sexuality is a spectrum. I married a two-spirit woman who was previously in a LTR with another woman. We have given her the opportunity to enjoy her sexuality together - I take her as she is, and she is amazing. Any good relationship is built on honesty, so when she's honest about her wants and needs I am more than happy to help her satisfy them.

[Qdbrown]

Having sex for fun with her and her partner, if they are hot--Yes.

Dating seriously--No.

Why set yourself up for a poly relationship? She will be seeing others in your relationship. Bi's don't just lose the urge when they get into a relationship.

In real world, a high value man can cheat. A woman cannot. They can get mad and say anything. Women dont get to act like men, and be treated like women. Bottomline.

They might as well get a dog and die alone.

[TheLawAroundHere]

This is simple. If we are engaging in recreational sex and sport fucking, why would it matter what 2 or more people... who, by the way, dont owe me any kind of explanation... want to do when im not there?

Now, once we get it all set up, official, and exclusive... thats a different story. And honestly, that would be the same thing if she was as straight as a honeymoon dick, too.

[HawkPerception]

My first girlfriend was bisexual, but I didn't know until 2 years after we started dating. From my experience, she did seem a little bipolar and kept asking me if I wanted to see her makeout with a girl. I personally don't find girl on girl action to be hot and don't care for it. After that experience, I don't think I'd date a bisexual girl again.

[magiusX26]

as long as they are loyal or if a more casual relationship either she shares or keeps it completely separate from me (as in not telling me all about how she and her girlfriend get it on or date besides something that comes up that affects mine and her relationship such as legal issue arising from a date or maybe an injury from their sex).

[llcanon]

i found out after 16 years she was bi and all it did was bring destruction to so many lives. No i would never date a Bi knowing she was one. i didn't get the chance to make that choice with my second wife which we all have a right to do is the right to say no or yes when you have all the truth

[Juxtapose]

I *am* bisexual so yeah.

And all these reasons for not dating us is ridiculous and completely false. You straight people are so insecure.

[humayun69]

that's ironic coming from a guy who is not even insecure with his sexuality, stop disregarding others opinions dumbass

[Juxtapose]

"that's *ironic* coming from a guy who is not even *insecure* with his sexuality, stop disregarding others opinions *dumbass*"

I love self owns lol.

[humayun69]

at least try to make sense next time haha no wonder you are bi desperate af lmao

[Juxtapose]

I love some good old bigotry with my tea. Thanks!

[humayun69]

sure you do, at least be gay and make up your mind lmao. While i'm here I should probably even tell what's gonna happen in your future, you desperate life won't work out as a bi dumbass so you're gonna say that you're actually pansexual HAHAHA go enjoy your tea now freak

[Juxtapose]

@humayun69 Aww, are you jealous that I can enjoy both sexes while you hide in the closet? Poor little bigot.

[humayun69]

what closet? I don't like to suck cocks or have them up my ass. I have a huge 3" cock so I don't have to worry about "enjoying" both sexes lol

[Juxtapose]

Suuuure you don't ;)

[humayun69]

what are you talking about I have never touched dicks sexually before my 3 inch dick is enough to get me ladies

[Tranquility_Lady]

It depends like can i handle knowing the bi person likes both genders. What if i a guy and a girl like him its too much.


But i accpect the community so I don't know


If i really love them then mabye I don't know

[CourtneyJane]

I'm bisexual and live with a lesbian, while my friend with benefits is also bisexual and two of his previous partners were men. On top of that, we're both strippers.

[just_a_potato]

Well duh I'm also bisexual just means we have more in common

[mariospapadopoulos12]

Can i dm you? 😂

[just_a_potato]

@mariospapadopoulos12 depends on why

[mariospapadopoulos12]

I like that u bisexual, and i might be bi curious, thats why...

[just_a_potato]

If your only intention is to discuss sexual orientation then sure hmu

[mariospapadopoulos12]

Hmu? What does hnu means? Sory im not native speaker i don't understand all

[just_a_potato]

It stands for hit me up, that means texts me

[mariospapadopoulos12]

Dm me if u want i can't text first

[Anonymous]

No, there is nothing wrong with it. But I could never date a guy that I knew had been getting f**** by another man or sucking the d. Also it is too much worries if he was attracted to both, then when can I feel safe if he is hanging out with friends.

[Indianguyq]

Hello

[Opinion Owner]

Hey there

[Indianguyq]

Hello?

[Tyme1313]

You know it’s possible for a guy to be bisexual and not be getting f$&@ed. Some bisexual guys are exclusively the partner on top.

[Opinion Owner]

@Tyme1313 yes i know, still makes no difference to me, i can't.

[pigoat]

Fuck yeah

Though a lot of people i come across have always had negative things to say about bisexuals

So the almost 50/50 poll doesn't surprise me

[DaughterOfLilith]

Yes, I would. I actually have dated a bisexual guy.

[mariospapadopoulos12]

And how it was?

[kapkiki]

absolutely! bi guy or girl--assuming that they're bi just because they have "urges" (esp. when they're a guy) is... just kinda iffy

[IAMNathanael]

I would date a bisexual woman. If she's my partner and stays loyal (as would I) then it's practically the same as being straight... right? I'd say so

[NightOfTheSun]

My boyfriend is Bisexual and I'm honestly okay with it because I'm pansexual with a main attraction to men, my younger sister is also bisexual along with my best friend so I am not against it since both are finding good people for them

[amyismyname]

Shur just cause there bi doesn't have anything to do with who they are