Would you date a bisexual?

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Realistic07 · Accepted Answer

For me I really wouldn’t care one way or the other. Im straight and if she’s not, but for whatever reason is with me then clearly with all the choices in the world she wants to be with me. I understand that sexuality is a bog concern for many, but someone’s sexuality isn’t a factor in determining someone’s soul.

For me the only thing I’d really care about is who she is as a person, and the fact that she’s willing to be with me for who i am as a person. Everything else is simply a non-factor or non-important insecurity. Fortunately im a very secure person with and in myself, and I simply don’t feel the need to be insecure. Really insecurity just brings unnecessary drama where there otherwise it’s not.

From what I believe the important thing in any relationship is open communication, and understanding. Don’t get me wrong those two concepts may seem very simple at times, but at other moments can be very complicated. That being said it would be mine, and whoever I’m with responsibility to address those complexities in a constructive manner.

Well that’s my two cents on the matter.

Inexpensivefurniture · Accepted Answer

I'm really sick of this idea that bisexuals are riskier to date because they have more options. That just means that they could have gone out with anyone and they still picked you. Cheating isn't a matter of oppertunity, it's a personality flaw. Sexuality doesn't play into the likelihood that they will remain loyal or not.
To answer the question, yes I would date a bisexual. I've done it twice in the past and I was never even a little worried about infidelity

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

As a woman it's something I've really struggled with there are things sexually I'm not prepared to do. So knowing that man I'm with has would put me off.
Years ago when I was more trusting I think sexually I was more open and I did consider it but I realise a lot of men don't value women like me, they see me as a fun time girl. Fine but why does my sexuality confine me to a stereotype.
So may sound judgy but I think maybe I need to find someone that matches my values rather than actively seeking someone just for their sexually fluidity.
I want a matching of minds and soul everything else is fluff.
Catch my drift.

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

I’m straight and with a straight man and would never be with a bisexual because I don’t want a man who is attracted to men or has been fucked in the bum or has sucked dick. My boyfriend also isn’t interested in girls who want to eat pussies or get wet by looking at girls.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

No because they would have urges, desires I wouldn't be able to fulfill for them, and I'm not into open relationships... So I would only date someone that's into females only because I know I could fulfill their sexual needs, and desires...

Anonymous · Answer

I feel that dating a person who's bisexual might add more competition to the relationship, but then not really, it's the same as dating someone who's heterosexual. I like men, but it doesn't mean that if there are 10 men, I would like them all. If I was to date a man who like men and women, it doesn't mean that he would be attracted to all 10 men and 10 women that he interacted with.

I just don't know if dating a man who liked men and women would make him feel that he wished he was with a man when he was with me. Maybe not, he made his choice just like when I made my choice to be with a man, instead of any of the other 2 men I've interacted in my life.

joshua_francis · Answer

Yes I would date a bisexual girl. I do think girl on girl is hot. And I'd get relaxed with her bringing her 'friends' back. Well could be friends or someome she likes or an ex (only if girl). Then could watch or even better have a threesome. I guess there would be more to talk about in terms of past relationships if she's had them with both genders.

Also it's hard to explain but Id be more protective over a straight girl than bisexual one. As I know of more people who been physically hurt by men. And also the sex if different for guy girl and girl girl so be less jealous of a bisexual girlfriend as been penentrated by less guys

CaliDad · Answer

Yes. Sexuality is a spectrum. I married a two-spirit woman who was previously in a LTR with another woman. We have given her the opportunity to enjoy her sexuality together - I take her as she is, and she is amazing. Any good relationship is built on honesty, so when she's honest about her wants and needs I am more than happy to help her satisfy them.

Qdbrown · Answer

Having sex for fun with her and her partner, if they are hot--Yes.

Dating seriously--No.

Why set yourself up for a poly relationship? She will be seeing others in your relationship. Bi's don't just lose the urge when they get into a relationship.

In real world, a high value man can cheat. A woman cannot. They can get mad and say anything. Women dont get to act like men, and be treated like women. Bottomline.

They might as well get a dog and die alone.

HawkPerception · Answer

My first girlfriend was bisexual, but I didn't know until 2 years after we started dating. From my experience, she did seem a little bipolar and kept asking me if I wanted to see her makeout with a girl. I personally don't find girl on girl action to be hot and don't care for it. After that experience, I don't think I'd date a bisexual girl again.

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

This is simple. If we are engaging in recreational sex and sport fucking, why would it matter what 2 or more people... who, by the way, dont owe me any kind of explanation... want to do when im not there?

Now, once we get it all set up, official, and exclusive... thats a different story. And honestly, that would be the same thing if she was as straight as a honeymoon dick, too.

magiusX26 · Answer

as long as they are loyal or if a more casual relationship either she shares or keeps it completely separate from me (as in not telling me all about how she and her girlfriend get it on or date besides something that comes up that affects mine and her relationship such as legal issue arising from a date or maybe an injury from their sex).

llcanon · Answer

i found out after 16 years she was bi and all it did was bring destruction to so many lives. No i would never date a Bi knowing she was one. i didn't get the chance to make that choice with my second wife which we all have a right to do is the right to say no or yes when you have all the truth

Juxtapose · Answer

I *am* bisexual so yeah. And all these reasons for not dating us is ridiculous and completely false. You straight people are so insecure.

Tranquility_Lady · Answer

It depends like can i handle knowing the bi person likes both genders. What if i a guy and a girl like him its too much.

But i accpect the community so I don't know

If i really love them then mabye I don't know

CourtneyJane · Answer

I'm bisexual and live with a lesbian, while my friend with benefits is also bisexual and two of his previous partners were men. On top of that, we're both strippers.

just_a_potato · Answer

Well duh I'm also bisexual just means we have more in common

Anonymous · Answer

No, there is nothing wrong with it. But I could never date a guy that I knew had been getting f**** by another man or sucking the d. Also it is too much worries if he was attracted to both, then when can I feel safe if he is hanging out with friends.

pigoat · Answer

Fuck yeah Though a lot of people i come across have always had negative things to say about bisexuals  So the almost 50/50 poll doesn't surprise me

DaughterOfLilith · Answer

Yes, I would. I actually have dated a bisexual guy.

kapkiki · Answer

absolutely! bi guy or girl--assuming that they're bi just because they have "urges" (esp. when they're a guy) is... just kinda iffy

RingOfFire · Answer

I used to think I wouldn't, but the idea of unlimited threesomes with two women isn't all that bad anymore. If it works for her, I think I could suffer through it. 😜

IAMNathanael · Answer

I would date a bisexual woman. If she's my partner and stays loyal (as would I) then it's practically the same as being straight... right? I'd say so

NightOfTheSun · Answer

My boyfriend is Bisexual and I'm honestly okay with it because I'm pansexual with a main attraction to men, my younger sister is also bisexual along with my best friend so I am not against it since both are finding good people for them

amyismyname · Answer

Shur just cause there bi doesn't have anything to do with who they are

beldath · Answer

I have before. Would be nice to date one that would bring another woman into the bedroom to join us. 😇

kellytheman · Answer

I didn't really date her we was just friends with benefits but she mostly dated girls and had sex with them but sometimes she said she needed a dick. Sometimes her girlfriend would join us during sex.

Guanfei · Answer

Guess I would. But I'd still be afraid.
I mean, I could barely find and keep a straight girl, who could easily find better.
Imagine now if she had could find better in men AND women.
Twice the chance to lose her.

ohshee · Answer

A bisexual women yes maybe she could teach me something maybe I could teach h e r something

TheBootyChest · Answer

Yes I would. I might try to join them on an adventure myself.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Dated a few, not sure If I would do it again. I don't want kids, a bisexual woman would be better off with another woman unless she wants kids.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yep my ex was and have dated others. not a problem tbh.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

If they were loyal and preferred men, then I guess so.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Not sure. The situation hasn't presented itself (going out with a gal who said she was bi- and into open relationships doesn't count since it was on a first "date").

Kas19 · Answer

My boyfriend and I are both bisexual, so of course. I don't see why not.

rebeliouse · Answer

@msk3k3xx
r u bi?

too right i would love to date two bi girls and live with both so all have fun together think it would be a great dynamic as could be all three or could partner up when other is busy.

LawdHaveMurthy · Answer

Of course, it doesn't mean they aren't gonna be loyal.

britishbby · Answer

Absolutely, tbh it's more attractive, id love to go round and check out other girls with my love 😂😩

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I would date and have a relationship with a bisexual girl

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Nah cause now I gotta worry about them cheating with BOTH genders

JustaWoman95 · Answer

Hope all you biphobes burn in a pool of acid.  Straight people cheat all the damn time why the fuck are we labeled it only? Rot in hell you pieces of shit.

krin_m · Answer

I have in the past and yes I would again. Not really different than non-exclusively dating multiple partners as long as everything is in open and natural.

Ifriqyan · Answer

Nope i wouldn't and it has nothing to do with it being riskier.

OddBeMe · Answer

Just cuz they’re bi doesn’t mean they’re not monogamous.

Anonymous · Answer

Been there, done that. She tried to get me to do threesomes which I was not into. then cheated on me twice with another girl. Not going down that road again.

David_Kek · Answer

Evidently yes, though I still have my own questions How to date a Bi woman? - GirlsAskGuys

Paul09 · Answer

Yes? What's the difference from a straight person? You make it sound like your are generalizing. Like a racist would.

Satish2607 · Answer

Well I don't have the chance anymore as I am happily married to a straight woman. However I really wouldn't mind if my partner was bisexual.

LEADERoftheWOLFPACK · Answer

Everybody has their preferences.. id LOVE to date a bisexual just for the fact that it may be easier to have a fantastic 3some.. Personaly, If I were a chick I'd be a complete dyke/lesbian

Anonymous · Answer

No way in hell. Not meaning to be rude but I cannot, it's just not my style

Anonymous · Answer

People are going to come at me, but honestly I don't think I could.

stargazeraug1989 · Answer

Absolutely. I'd even set her up with same sex partners on her birthday.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Yes as long as she's biologically a woman and who looks like one.

Marioz86 · Answer

mmm yes bi girl if she brings another girl into bed too🤤

gangs_and_guns · Answer

My ex girlfriend was bi. Honestly if i could choose, i would prefer bi girlfriend

shalt · Answer

It's realllllly hard, most bisexuals still only want one at a time. It's not easy. It doesn't work

Cowboy6666 · Answer

i would date a bisexual girl because i wanna try FMF, FFMFF

Anonymous · Answer

All these sick males saying yes just because of a threesome smh🤮

Anonymous · Answer

The probability of her cheating to the next person next to me would be much higher than a straight girl, so hello noo😂

Anonymous · Answer

I did briefly. Was just like dating any other woman

NathanDavis · Answer

my ex-girlfriend was, so yes.

123lucy · Answer

Yes, I am bisexual too.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yeah but if it was a girl

PatKirby · Answer

Yes, but only to simultaneously screw them.

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