Why do girls who are 24 treat guys who are 32 like they are elderly?

[Anonymous]

Like I don’t know if this is a gen z thing or individual thing but an example is my ex girlfriend who would talk to me to the equivalent of an elderly person. Side note she also had a strong dislike towards the actual elderly she considered them gross

[Anonymous]

Most likely because they feel they’re still kids. That you’re in a completely different age range, so they can’t relate. It’s only when they hit that age do they realize that hell I’m not old at all. For me I thought being in your 30s was old. Now that I’m in my 40s I still don’t feel that way, mentally speaking. Yes as you get older you may not feel that way mentally, but physically some parts of your body will tell you no you’re not in your 20s anymore. It’s just a stage of life they’ve never been to yet, so they can’t comprehend that. But when they hit that age most of them will realize they’re not really old.

[Asker]

But the thing is when I was 23-24 I never had that mindset about older people if anything I would seek these people out for their knowledge

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Probably because millennials act like babies and then a kid sees a sleepy, Democrat who act like a child it reminds them of old people.

[HelpfulWoman]

one woman did it and now you think we all do? maybe that level of intelligence is why

[mandyfire98]

I don't know. I've always preferred older men honestly

[Asker]

Well no she had such a strong dislike seeming to forget that she ages as well.

[mandyfire98]

That's odd

[Asker]

Like I call it as it was it came off as very ageist

[mandyfire98]

Definitely seems like it

[Asker]

Like I just never seen anything like it when I was 23-24 I didn’t think like that and everytime she did it I was thinking why didn’t she reveal this upfront so I wouldn’t have asked her out

[mandyfire98]

It's weird if she thought that way that she'd even go out with you. That's what is strange.

[Asker]

Well she turned out to be the polar opposite of what i thought i was dating she was supposed to be mature, dating to marry not in the party scene. Well when she got upset she had these child like temper tantrums that made me feel like I was in a daycare not a relationship

[mandyfire98]

Sounds like she's still immature

[Asker]

Yeah it was full kicking and screaming turning red and everything part of me was like this isn’t normal on any scale cause first when I was 23-24 I didn’t do that and the girls I knew then around the same age didn’t do that

[mandyfire98]

Definitely not normal at all. That's personality disorder level

[Asker]

But that was another thing when I called it out her and her friend said I was gaslighting her

[mandyfire98]

Which is gaslighting in itself lol

[Asker]

Yeah our communication was almost non existent because she couldn’t conduct herself like an adult if she heard something she didn’t want to hear she would go lalala I’m not listening or run into the other room and slam the door

[mandyfire98]

You sure she was in her 20s? Haha

[Asker]

Yeah this was really happening sad part is is this is all I have to go off in terms of experience with women and dating

[mandyfire98]

I can promise you that most other women aren't that immature. That's straight childish on her part

[Asker]

Yeah she would always want to watch Disney movies while I was like be in the other room watching Gomorrah

[mandyfire98]

This sounds like a literal child you were dating lol.

[Asker]

So women don’t do none of this and this is a serious question cause she’s all I have to go off

[mandyfire98]

Nope. Women don't act like 10 year olds and only watch disney movies and throw actual temper tantrums like that.

[Asker]

Yeah like I’ll use next month as an example I love scary movie’s especially psychological thrillers so when I was watching terrifier 2 when I came out she was watching hocus pocus in the other room

[mandyfire98]

Well hocus pocus is a great movie. Lets be honest. That's a bad example.

[mandyfire98]

Classic movie

[DrPepper12]

I've seen the opposite. 20s girls are ACTIVELY LOOKING for older guys. They love the experience, resources and non fuckboi qualities

[mandyfire98]

True

[Nikki1989]

I don't know anyone that has that mindset.