I don't know how you are but if you wanna mess around lmkkkk?

[Anonymous]

So I met this girl online and the conversation turned out great. We started to get to know each other for about a week and the interest seemed mutual to start. She was always attentive with conversation and tried to keep it going. Asking how I was doing and seemed concerned with what I did next and always asking what I’m doing. As a nurse it felt good because she would ask how my patients are and how work has been turning out. On the other hand she would have clinicals for athletic training and would greet me early in the morning and would apologize if she got too busy. All in all through conversation she was interested and consideration and eager to know more. I noticed she didn’t really validate me too much and as a man that isn’t really important to me but I bring it up for this reason. This morning while I was at work she did a complete 180 and said this through text in the screenshot below when I asked about our plans for the weekend where we would be free. Is this a test of some sort. Why would go through a whole week of getting to know me for something she could’ve flirted and got out of me in a day. I’m not complaining but I’m just confused as to what this meant. Any thoughts?

[CuriousHubby]

Sooo this girl wanted a good talk and you gave it to her?

Honestly it's great and nurses need more love! 💕

Honestly it's her being sure your not falling in love to fast. So many guys just fall hard and it's cringe when it happens.

She just wants company she can kinda trust and not care about deeply. Your being great company but she wants to make sure you don't want her as a girlfriend!

Your basically attention boy toy number 3 for her. For when she is bored and needs to chat.

[hahahmm]

But you see, it is not a female's job/responsibility to make the first move or be direct. Maybe all the talk about men & women being "equal" confused people but 90% of them aren't going to act like a dude & most of the ones that do are not even going to be who/what you want.