What does it mean if a girl accepts your friend request at 4am?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl I like and I've been trying to put myself out there for her. I complimented her at a party, danced with her a few minutes afterwards for one song, then left her alone the rest of the night so she wouldn't think I'm just sticking to her. I didn't send her a friend request on Instagram for months afterwards (it was summer) and then a volunteering opportunity came up at school where she had signed up for a specific shift and I signed up to be her partner then. Nothing happened that time except that we officially met. I sent her a friend request that evening to show her that I remember her from the party and she doesn't accept until almost 3 weeks later on a Saturday night at 4am. Could this mean anything? I'm a girl by the way 🫣

[Anonymous]

Think it means she was up and curious about you! Looked at your pictures and thought she would give you a chance you seem fun!

Send her a message and see if you two can meet up and spend time together maybe date or just be physical together.

Maybe her boyfriend was going through her phone and saw your request? Added you for her

[Nirmroth]

I don't know if she's even gay to begin with but this is clearly the behaviour of a girl that isn't interested.

[Nikki1989]

What makes you think a friend request means anything at any time.

[Iron_Man]

What makes you think that she’s gay?

[EnjoytheDay777]

It's great! It's be flattered

[OddBeMe]

She was up at 4am.