Girls, why should you *not* be gold diggers?

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Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Regardless, men should be wise and vigilant to their ways and the propensity for women to keep men to fund their existence to and get money from them and use them and expect men to take care of them. Truth be told, unless a woman is traditional and wants to just be a mom and to marry at 19-20 and start a family and have a lot of kids, men as a hole shouldn't take care of any of women's finances.

Men should (outside of paying for a few first dates) not get into the cycle of paying for or funding anything with women. If they choose to marry they should keep separate credit cards, keep their own bank accounts to where the others name is not on it and the other has no access to it. Each car should be in the person's own name.

Men who simp and try to "buy" a woman's heart or pay for everything and who let the woman take this role in life where she does nothing and he pays for everything, these men are utter fools and deserve whatever misery comes their way.

Like I said, unless a woman is traditional and wants to run the home and marry young and raise a family no man should fund any woman financially. If she wants to go to college and party and start a career to be "independent" and to not "need a man" then she should handle ALL of her own financial responsibilities and no man should give her any of his assets.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Even when women earn substantial money in their own right they still want a man that earns substantially more. They are hypergamous and naturally dig for gold.

Jennz6 · Accepted Answer

I’m not a Gold digger but I dance 💃 for a living and I get tips from men who are here to see me dancing so it’s not like I take advantage of them

Puppystarfish23 · Accepted Answer

If I want something I shouldn't have to ask a man for it

Anonymous · Answer

As I have gotten older, this is a really gray area, if a 20-year-old girl is dating a 20-year-old guy it's okay for them both to be broke, but when girls are dating guys and they're 30s or 40s, if the guy is still broke it is a reflection of him. That's not to say they need to go for the richest guy, but if the guy is in hard-working it could be a red flag. And it doesn't necessarily mean that guy doesn't deserve a girl, but maybe it means he needs to make priority himself before dating.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Here is an old song that explains it:

Juxtapose · Answer

Girls should use men who know what they are getting into for their money. If the men are willing to part with it and they know that you just want the money as a woman, what's really the harm?

paledreams · Answer

Other - ladies be like, they'll be ladies 😜🤣 ♀️👠

A_Wild_Redhead · Answer

Cause even with money, I'd still be feeling unhappy and stuck with you.

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

I selected other when I should have selected the first option not wanting to influence the numbers however forgetting guys could answer it too.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Because I prioritise other things in a guy

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Everybody is crazyyy

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