Girls, I got a stupid question. What's the reason you're NOT being gold diggers?

[Anonymous]

That's right. Instead of saying girls being gold diggers like some men like to say, i am genuinely wondering why you are not into the type of transactional relationships for the money. Is there any reason for it if at all? Are the lavish benefits for selling love not appealing? Does it feel wrong to use somebody for money or feeling like getting things you did not earn? Are there not enough rich guys or is the competition too high? Or is it as simple as thoroughly loving making your own money and spending it however you please? Or do you respect yourself too much to go down the gold digging lifestyle?

I know girls in Germany are often the highly educated and working type. Its almost like it's in their DNA or upbringing or the modern German culture. Even just mentioning these words "gold digger" will set them off and it won't be a pleasant experience. Love these things. Ask me how i know 😅😅😅🥲

Hence why i am asking here.

[England4eva]

I would become pretty depressed of living a fake life, on account for someone else’s cash.

What you have to remember is that the type of men who invite gold-diggers into their lives, have their own ideals of how thus gold digger should look, think and act.

I’d have to be his “perfect version of a woman,” in order to earn his diamonds and expensive meals out. That just isn’t me. I’d get tired of living up to his ridiculous expectations pretty quickly and want to revert back to being a normal human-being, fast.

Id rather qualify as a decent guys version of a normal, fulfilling woman. So, at times I can have scruffy hair, no make up and be accepted when I put on a little holiday weight.

[Asker]

Good answer!

[England4eva]

Thanks pal.

[jennifer_bloom]

For me there are two major reasons - Personality makes me happier then money and the second is rich guys are dangerous for marriage cause there is the risk of cheating and competition with other girls and wrath by in laws and divorce risks and a higher risk of abuse if the guy feels entitled to you due to being able to dump you and replace you easily and I also believe money increases the risk of moral corruption but the strongest reason is that character is more appealing to me than material things and second to Gods in importance to me.

[Marushka]

My cash. My decisions. Not to mention that it's also a matter of pride. I'm an academic. I didn't spend years at university to leach of a guy I'm not even into.

Also being in a relationship purely for financial reasons sounds boring and annoying af.

[Asker]

Good answer!