Is it wrong for a girl to be a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

People always taunt a girl telling she is a gold digger if she is wanting to have relationship with a man which earn more money, can afford to give her more comfort, more stable life and can provide her everything. Is it wrong?

What I know a man look for more beautiful girl or more caring understanding, mature, honest lady. If someone is going for beauty I feel that's not the right choice because someday beauty may die and there would be more beautiful girls around so he couldn't be true to one person for life maybe.

But if a woman is loyal, loving caring and understanding is it really wrong for her to look for a rich man?

[Finchie40]

Yes it’s wrong because love doesn’t come from money , it comes from the heart , if someone is only pursuing you because of what’s inside your wallet , they don’t truly love you , they only love what they can receive from you , Gold diggers are users , they only want what they feel is best for themselves , if they don’t get what they want, they will more than likely run to someone else to get what they want , Gold diggers sadly can’t be trusted , because they only really care about themselves. Love only grows when 2 people choose each other and make each other their top priority over everyone else , that treat each other as a team , you are both in it together no matter what obstacles you face together , Basically you have my back I have yours. 2 people that remove selfishness for each other , 2 people that resist temptations for each other , that’s where love grows between 2 imperfect people , because we are all imperfect people , without that you have nothing , A gold digger only wants what’s best for them , I don’t care if she is loyal and faithful to her rich man , she only loves what’s inside his wallet , she thinks she was put on Earth to be catered to and taken care of at all times , not really having to lift a finger , just spreads her legs and tries to look good , thinking her shit don’t stink , her husband will enjoy the attention she is giving him in the beginning. but he will eventually not feel loved by her when he realizes all she wants is his money ,’He will more than likely cheat on her because he doesn’t feel like he has a partner, he feels like he has a user , when he realizes she brings nothing to the table but sex , he will more than likely lose interest in her because she has no value into the relationship what so ever , all she cares about is what other people think about her like she is the center of everyone’s attention , the spotlight is on her , not realizing no one really gives a shit , she looks more like a fool over anything. People
That have selfish mindsets will never experience true love because they only care about themselves , I had my fair share of high maintenance gold digger girls ‘ they were great in bed but other than that there was nothing more to her , just a selfish girl. most of them are dumb and have no common sense what so ever. She just loves her life like her shit doesn’t stink

[aceleon]

absolutly.
because what you love is not the guy, it is the money, no one wants to be the second fiddle to the thing he works his ass off for, or have anyone milk him like a cow aka taken advantage of his effforts, also gold diggers are shallow and disgusting they can't be loving or such thing they can sure as hell act but they really are not and even if they were, no one wants to be loved by a scavenger.
beauty belongs to the person, it is their own, your beauty is you, money is an object we provide and no one wants to be a provider if they have any brain cell in them.

[aceleon]

so do yourself a favour and get rid of the idea that man are providers, we are not, we maybe protectors but in all honesty most guys just wants to be a breeder.

[Asker]

So a man is not the providers but only the protector. So why a woman should be interested in making a family raising kids, and investing her time and energy into that when she only could earn for herself and her living? What for she needed to get involved with a man in her life when a army can protect her? And we can train a female force to be as an army?

[Asker]

We all can remove our uterus and ovaries and just can concentrate on ourselves only.

[Asker]

For heavy and dangerous works we can use machines and technology.

[aceleon]

those machines needs to be build you know that right? good luck lifting heavy metal pieces and doing all sort of engineery. and if providing was the reason of our existence no need to, you can do it yourself too if you are able to build a female army and such shits, the point is that army will always lose against a man army. also did i ever say woman should do those things? if you see your man as an living bank account by all means not do any of those things, i would feel really really sad for the poor guy you manage to catch or the poor kids you will make, you make a family because you want to, a family is not something you reward a man with if he isa good boy and works his ass off for you, mans are not dogs you know that right? first get rid of the idea that womans or kids are rewards, a thing woman gives to man if he keeps his side of the bargain he is not even aware he agreed in the first place, if anything those things are what woman desires more than mans do since for most guys we really only want the sex, the rest is just sort of happens or we do it out of individualistic desires or fear of getting along as we grow older, in short stop acting like you or anything you will give to a guy is a reward for his hard work, it is not, you are not a reward, if anything you are a resource, man are not providers, we are hunters.

[aceleon]

and guess what makes the main course.

[Asker]

Men are provider and female are care taker. This is fact. If they don't do their roles they have no purpose of their lives.

[aceleon]

purpose? girl you really are delusional if the purpose us guys came to this world for feeding a grown ass chick who can do it herself, i don't know you but i wasn't born to getting leeched off by a girl who has nothing to offer to me that i can't have much more easily elsewhere, what you call is not facts, it has no scientific basis or such thing, you might go like this as much as you like but only really really stupid guys will fall for this crap, also guys who has nothing else that can make them find womans, like i said, we are NOT providers, we are hunters, we hunt, we feed, we left to find some other when we get hungry again.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

To me it's smart to choose a man who is financially stable and well-off but that's not necessarily a gold-digger.

A gold-digger is someone who only values a man for his money, often even lies and pretends to like more about him when she only wants his money.

That's definitely unethical due to the deception.

[Asker]

But people and society call them "gold digger" just because she is looking for a better financial man a better provider for her. And I see man to treat a woman as if she has no more value and because a man earns because a man provide to a female they feel like woman has no more value in herself. And this hurts me when I see male having such kind thoughts nowadays. I feel like it was better if we woman didn't existed ever.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Yeah, I think the term is thrown about too loosely these days, like people assume any woman who dates a rich man must be a gold digger. That's silly.

[Drew-1990]

I don't think it's right or wrong honestly. I don't believe it's for the best really. I get wanting to be comfortable we all do but when you look for that I feel there is not as much love, I think that is why most of those relationships end up failing, not all but most. Again I get wanting comfort but so many guys who don't get as much money get ignored from girls who only want a rich man and they would probably make you happier than the money will. Some of the happiest people are actually poor they struggle but they seem so much happier despite it. Also sorry but when looking for a rich man your chances are way lower to actually finding someone and they honestly have a lot more choices. In the end it's your decision I won't judge you for it even if I may disagree

[CozyCoffin]

Being a gold digger is different things to different people. In the literal sense, she would have a claim and a pickaxe. In a figurative manner, she would be looking at the man as an ATM and would only value his money. If you want to be with a man that's financially stable, that isn't being a gold digger as long as you're not strictly there for that and are willing to stick by him if he loses his job.

[Noodle_fan]

It is depend , if the people that she used for money dont mind , i dont see why it is wrong

I know a guy who like that , well he is very rich and dont care about how much the money he spent , he only care about how much girls he can smash

[Hanrej]

Not so long as she's honest about it. It's up to every man to decide if they feel the woman they've set their eyes on is worth taking care of. Most men however would only consider caring for a woman who hold genuine affection in turn, someone he can trust with his vulnerability, who will be a support in times of stress or fatigue.

Few men are willing to share in their abundance with a woman who offers nothing but is happy to take advantage.

[boggboss]

Yes its shitty for a women to be a gold digger the same way u believe its wrong for a guy to only care about looks

[Asker]

Looks can be modified but richness can't.

[boggboss]

What's your point

[Asker]

It's same, I want to know why it is wrong to be a gold digger? When men are supposed to be a provider and a rich can be a better provider for her?

[boggboss]

If the way u thought was normal women wouldn't want to work they would only look for a male to look after them stating u are a gold digger means u have no care for the actual man just his wealth with as soon as that going u move on its a kin to being a parasite

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Key part in what boggboss said is "only". Valuing financial success or looks isn't unethical so long as that's not the only thing we care about.

[boggboss]

👍🏽

[Asker]

Ok got it

[Anonymous]

No, it's not a problem at all.

I earn much more than my girlfriend and I'm sure she also likes my money.

I like her in the same way I like her personality, her beauty and her sexuality, and she loves my stability and my being smart.

She's a great person, anyway, and I'm sure we'll have children.

Don't worry and have a nice time with your rich guy!

[Billlewis]

No, not at all. In fact, I'd honestly rather date/serve a gold digger than any other type of woman.

[Kaneki05]

Not if it's honest. It's one thing for them to know and be okay with it, for it to be guy who's unaware he's been manipulated.

[madpete1111]

Short answer: no. Why shouldn't a woman want to be taken care of?

[Jamie05rhs]

Your logic is flawed. Beautiful women do not get less beautiful. They only get older. But they are still beautiful.

[Yannae]

If the guy is unaware, it is. You're manipulating and using him. If he knows, it's okay.

[TheSpider]

I ama huge fan of "Golddiggers of 1933". i suggest you watch that movie and then ask that question.

[war_daddy]

only ok if she is also beautiful. otherwise it's wrong and stupid to try

[Asker]

Beauty can be bought with money, through plastic surgery cosmetic treatments etc.

[war_daddy]

still more valuable than an ugly woman

[itsclearlynicholas]

Broadly gold digging, I'd say it's wrong

[McLlovin]

Yes its wrong.

[Dongie]

Ofcourse