I chose the wrong girl as my girlfriend and the wrong girl as my side chick?

[Anonymous]

I was interested in two females and I got in to a relationship with one of them but kept the other one as my side without her knowing. I know I know, I’m not proud of it. They both found out and I lost both of them. I was in love with my girlfriend but was just using the side for sex since I thought she was promiscuous. To cut the story short, I’ve realized now after a lot has come to light that my girlfriend was the hoe (she’s slept around, stripped, is a gold digger, and got into a relationship right after we broke up and is using him for money) and my side was a really great woman and honestly has it all. I was just so stupid not to see it and I guess I left my bad judgement play me once again. I can actually see myself building a family with her since she’s not like the females nowadays. She absolutely hates me and seems like she will never give me a second chance. How do I make her trust me again? I’m ready to settle down and actually commit. She likes one of a kind and I fucked up….

[Anonymous]

We learn from mistakes in life but if you think the doors are still open for you both to work things out then go head for it. No judgement call but it’s going to be hard for her to trust you again though.

[Hangry06]

Please don't. Let her live in peace with some loyal guy

[IncognitoBandito]

You sound like you still have some issues and maturing to do, I'd leave her alone and focus on trying to better yourself

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

I guess you have to continue to look for another among one if those females of nowadays.

[PrettyPriya]

You can't "make" anyone do anything. You have already broken that trust. If it were me, there would be no second chance.

[nawtee_me]

Why a side chick? One is not enough? You reap what you sow...

[Asker]

I would have felt a lot worse about doing that and cheating on my then girlfriend if I didn’t find out that she was cheating on me through the relationship also while living with the dude. I was an idiot. Not to mention entertaining other men since she worked as a bar girl. I know what I did was messed up, I just want to know if there’s a way to get the girl that I made my side chick trust me again and start over. If I knew the truths of the two girls back then, I would’ve never made the girl that I made my girl my girlfriend and I would have only had the girl I made my side to be my only girl. I was stupid.