Why do some women insist men never have fun?

[Juxtapose]

https://youtube.com/clip/Ugkx4p2ozAoI_qHIoBObRQU9CTFijzVBxohy?si=B_SKrpwi2ZmYTsAf

Is the dude supposed to be productive 24/7? Do you think you're productive when you get on tik tok, YouTube or watch TV?

If you are confused, the subject matter is contained in the clip.

[Apple1996]

I don't understand this either. Playing video games is fun and can be a bonding activity to do together. I would only be mad if my man chose to play video games all day and ignored me 24/7.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah I totally agree with you on that. I would not want to be ignored either.

[Apple1996]

I'm the bigger gamer in my relationship so thankfully never had this problem 😅

[worldscolide]

Finally something we agree on. My wife and I play together all the time. Especially Mario kart, and Mario party. As well as a number of other Mario games.

[Apple1996]

@worldscolide we love mario! It's my kids fav but me and hubby also play at night when they're sleeping

[ForsakenQuill]

Because those women are miserable and want others to be equally miserable. I used to work with someone like that until she started telling other coworkers what to do and when the coworker snapped at her she attempted to tattle to management and one of the higher ups heard her shouting at management and they finally fired her. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Never thought I'd see the day.

[Juxtapose]

People like that confound me. When I am miserable I just want to be alone and not drag other people down with me.

[ForsakenQuill]

I am the same way. I prefer to remove myself from the situation and calm down. It seems women are different. They prefer to escalate the issue thinking that'll somehow solve said issue.

[Juxtapose]

It would certainly result in them being broken up by me if they wouldn't cut it the hell out.

Thank goodness I have dated girls who either game or don't have a problem with it.

[HighValue]

That is one of the biggest problems I have always had with women around my generation. They would get angry if a man enjoys gaming or table top RPGs.

[Juxtapose]

And meanwhile they fuck around on their phone even if you have the TV on and are trying to watch something with them.

[Juxtapose]

It's so hypocritical.

[HighValue]

Even back when I was in high school and just out of high school, most women around my age at the time had a serious problem with any guy that enjoyed gaming. The majority of them ended up with different guys that partied with drugs and they ended up single mothers.
In my opinion, having good clean hobbies that use someone's free time is much better than them doing something that will forever negatively affect their lives.

I'll choose low stress, a peaceful home, and enjoyable hobbies every time over someone that only makes my life worse.

[Juxtapose]

Luckily the women in my generation tend to be pretty cool with guys having hobbies and I have women who will play pen and paper tabletop games with me like dungeons and dragons or vampire the masquerade. Video games are fun as well.

It's like watching tv, you just don't let it take over your whole life and it's all good. I understand why some people can't get that.

[Juxtapose]

Clean hobbies are a lot better than some wannabe Crip who gets hardened into some psychopathic sociopath by the gang life.

[A_Wild_Redhead]

I don't mind it. The only thing that bothers me a bit is when a new game is out. He will be glued to that. But that is just something that comes with the package.

[LiamJHayden]

Because the guys that they do know do not have fun in the same way the women do. A woman might have fun by going to a swap meet for five hours. To me that would be like pulling teeth, unless there are several guitar sellers.

[Juxtapose]

Well they could find a group activity to do together and then do their own thing separately.

[worldscolide]

It's straight up stupid. As @Apple1996 said, it's a bonding thing, it's only a problem if it becomes something that happens at the expense of all else, like ignoring the significant other, and work/housework.

[Gwendoline]

Fun like fishing, gym, target practice, boxing, hunting, drinks with buddies?

If he's worked hard all week and been productive why shouldn't he? Also good to get my man out from under my feet at times.

[Ms_Facesitter]

And that is why I prefer to date someone with the same interests. Makes things a lot easier.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's always the low-rent women who only aspire to make it to mid tier who complain about this.

[DrPepper12]

Cuz some are hags, don't give up the vag & her boobs sag yet put him in rags for her pricey tags if he lags make money bags when she really needs a gag & makes him wanna load a mag!

[RedInnocent69]

I’m probably not productive on here, but I do feel like I’m helpful sometimes. 😂