Female coworker is very touchy with me. Is that normal?

[Anonymous]

My female coworker, around 10 years older than me, is very touchy with me.

She will often get very close to me when she wants something or just wishes to tell me something.

She's pretty busty so it's not uncommon for her to squezze he breasts into my back while I'm sitting.

She often shares her food with me and propably slapped my ass at least once.

[worldscolide]

Imagine the roles reversed and it was a male doing that to a female. She would be screaming sexual harassment. No, none of what you're talking about is acceptable. It's not normal, it's sexual harassment. Just because you're male doesn't change that. I'd be feeling uncomfortable if I were in your shoes, and I'd report it.

[Asker]

But I like it!

[worldscolide]

Then do nothing. Chances are she's interested in you.

[Asker]

Well she's married and have kids so yeah

[worldscolide]

Yeah that's no good. That right there makes it very inappropriate.

[Asker]

Well I still like it tho...

[worldscolide]

Irrelevant, do you want to be a home wrecker? That's a shit thing for any man to be, I imagine her husband would be pissed if he learned her behavior.

[Anonymous]

How fit is she? Is she relatively slim despite having big boobs or is she kind of a fatty?

[Asker]

she's a bit chubby but thats about it

[Ohhmandy]

Umm unexceptable in the work place. Hello HR.

[Asker]

I do not mind her behaviour really

[Ohhmandy]

That is until she changes her mind and flips it. Look out for you.

[LiamJHayden]

Sounds like it is harassment.

[Asker]

I do not feel harassed

[StevenMcGarrett]

It is normal to me.

[Asker]

Yeah but what does it mean?

[StevenMcGarrett]

She's just being friendly and flirting.