Girls’ what kind of dirty talk do you like and don’t like?

[Finchie40]

Your man is in the mood and he wants to have sex with you , would you rather him always being sweet and romantic , or would you rather him walk up behind you at times and talk dirty in your ear saying naughty things to spice things up. To me , they can both be sexy at any given time , but apparently some of you girls’ don’t think the same way as us guys’ do , So the truth is , we aren’t mind readers , so how does a guy really know what gets you turned on and doesn’t get you turned on if you aren’t acceptable to both when you were before? I been with some girls’ that got upset that I was talking naughty to her , when she liked it before and then all of a sudden she doesn’t I am sorry I couldn’t read your mind , it didn’t bother you before, but now all of a sudden it does and I am using you? Like why do some girls’ do this shit? To me I feel like our relationship is coming to an end if she starts changing her mind all of a sudden, like I no longer matter to her , when it was never an issue before, like she acts like she is this victim all of a sudden , when really she is the POS. It seems to me , most of you girls’ don’t really know what you want , if a guy is to romantic to you , and always telling you sweet romantic things , you like it for a while , but eventually you get bored , if he tries to spice things up by talking naughty to you at times , it’s like a 50/50 chance on whether you get turned on or not. Us guys’ do not think that way , We just want to be close to you any which way we can , but some of you girls’ act like he is out of his mind by coming on to you. So do we dump a girl like that? and go find a girl that likes both like we do , or do we stay with her and be a convenience to her , and push all of our sexual wants aside for her to decide? . I know I am not the only guy that has experienced this shit , cuz I hear it from other guys’ as well. So how can we be on the same page as you, if you aren’t willing to be on the same page as us?

[Crimsyjo]

Communication is key I guess. Both sides.

I really don't know either. Like, there's so many contexts that could effect mood. Relationships are hard work! Personally like you I think I would like both. And I think if a guy does it at a bad time it's important the gal doesn't just brush him off like he should have known. I'm sure an explanation would go a long way right? Like "sorry. I just got this horrible parking ticket in the post and sex was last thing on my mind when u suddenly came up saying getting those panties off you dirty whore" 😂.

Or "you know I can't respond when we at my mums and calling me a horny slut just isn't right time or place... "

😂😂😂

Learning curve and all that. Of course if it's total mixed signals or she's "changed" (cos maybe she just went along with it to get u in bag but actually never liked it) or whatever haha of c you in your right to decide its not the relationship for u.

Just like if a woman feels undervalued and although likes the sex-on-the-go stuff if not balanced by affection or romance might start feeling uses just for sex and go off sex and then she too can decide the relationship isn't right...

[Finchie40]

Like we were talking about before on the other post , why honesty is important , don’t just assume your partner can read your mind , if you can’t be mature and communicate with your partner , then I’m sorry you are a selfish POS person that only cares about yourself , because you have no dignity or respect for anyone but yourself , So if a girl constantly expects me to read her mind , she is digging her own grave when I decide to leave her ass and if I meet someone else , oh well what’s it really matter to you , you didn’t care about me when I was with you but you are
Going to care about me when I am not with you?

[texascollegegirl]

You should really think about how your experience as a straight person influences your opinions. You've had some issues communicating about sexual topics with women, so you conclude the problem is women. That is just dumb as rocks. You're straight, so it seems likely your only sample is women. You aren't the only guy who pulls this shit.

In reply to your question, if it's more boyfriend, I love dirty talk that does what he wants -- subtly put him down and make him feel degraded for his small white cock, and give him every impression I'm cheating with the biggest dick Blacks I can find, but in way he can't quite prove. He needs to know I love that Big Black Cock so much more and that while I love him, that one part of his is too small. That's what gets him off. Me too.

[Anonymous]

Ya never know till you step over the line.😆

https://www.youtube.com/embed/bkmX44sk2TY

[Lilbit84]

So my past relationship of 7 years there was no dirty talk period it was just plain sex. I was once wanting to spice it up I told him to like pull my hair and call me a dirty slut but he was turned off so I never did it again. Actually sex wasn't even in the game any more. So when I met this lady guy he we woulld text either before he or i got off work like different things like he asked me what kind of panties I had and that stuff how he would touch or I would touch. What I don't like is in the middle of it saying something in my ass. Now I have to be prepared for that shit. That like takes a while couple days to process it weather he is or isn't tagging my ass.

[katiesmuff]

I've always been pretty open with this. Unless it is truly a mean or cruel kind of talk most anything else works for me.

[Finchie40]

Yea nothing cruel just naughty talk , What if your man said he wants to fuck your brains out? Would that turn you on or off?

[katiesmuff]

I like taking that challenge! And I'm still a pretty smart lady!😊😊😊