Why are so many males so cruel to me even though I’m nice and try not to hurt their feelings?

[Howtoloven]

asked myself why are so many males so cruel to me even though I’m nice and try not to hurt their feelings and all I came up was with males don’t see woman as human beings therefore they have no issue with treating us like objects and no guilt?

[_Maya_]

I just answered your other question.

How do I stop being nice and trusting people who continuously show me they are aholes?

I think that my answer there applies here as well. Just don't bother with people that treat you like crap. That is only feeding their attention that I mentioned in your last post. Once they know that you aren't willing to give into them they tend to get bored and either quit or move on. There is no reason you need to be mean but you certainly don't have to be nice to them. You can just ignore them. That usually takes care of the problem. The other thing about what you are asking is that usually there is a reason for every action. It is hard to look at ourselves and our actions objectively. There could be some sorta vibe that you give out (unknowingly) that is causing this to happen to you.

[BarryLiverstone]

Depends on what you mean by being nice and guilt. How do you make decisions and focus on their feelings?

[Billlewis]

You're probably being too nice to them.