What is the reason behind this?

[CoolCatMar1]

I sent a message to a girl i was together in the uni but she left uni for some reason i still did not comprehend. She never me a message even though we were friends kinda and went for coffee back then. But after she left we didn't talk again once we met outside because she was with her friend for coffee and we talked for a while but that's about it. And yesterday i sent a message and she replied instantly but question on question. And then left me on delivered until today and is online but doesn't reply still. I don't understand her issue. She follows me too but never likes my posts i don't understand.

[jennifer_bloom]

So I will guess a few things:

1 - She could be jealous or intimidated by the fact you could be competing with her for some guy or potential guy she likes, even unintentionally simply by being seen around her or him. I have met girls who got married and did not invite their best friends to the wedding cause the best friend was better looking than the woman that got married.

2 - She could be ashamed of her academic situation, or intimidated by you. I know a guy that flunked out of college and then blocked all of his female friends in college cause he was too embarrassed to tell people he flunked out. Before I found a good job after finishing school, I would ignore everybody at church who wanted to be my friend cause I was too scared to tell people about my joblessness.

3 - I sometimes avoid associating with people that are higher in status than me because I am scared they will compare me to others or be more judgmental of me then other people who do not have 70 people sending them emails every day.

4 - I've heard of guys who murdered strangers cause the strangers were good looking and they thought good looking people were popular and when they were kids popular kids bullied them and made fun of them.

An example is that as a child I would avoid guys who looked like certain bullies I knew so a guy could be very nice to me and I would just not be their friend no matter how nice they were cause they reminded me of somebody I was trying to forget.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Do you know what it means to be someone’s acquaintance?

[CoolCatMar1]

No need to have an attitude 🫠

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I was genuinely asking lol

[Decoded93]

She could just be very busy or a little uninterested in new friendships or just weird

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes she was kinda weird in uni some other girls also didn't quite understand her

[Decoded93]

She’s probably just very weird then! I wouldn’t over think it

Why do you want to connect with her anyways? Is she unique in some way?

[CoolCatMar1]

Well she is kinda sweet but I don't know

[Decoded93]

Hmm you might just have to accept her oddness if you wanna connect! Unfortunately some people are just like that

[CoolCatMar1]

Unfortunately yess

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe she's just busy fucking somebody. You get that way if you've got a new love.

[Jennz6]

She ghosted you. That happened to me too. 💕

[RedInnocent69]

Easily intimidated. Understandable. You’re exceptional.

[msc545]

Ask her.