Is the popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey proof, that millions of women are deep inside gold diggers and have a rrape fantasy?

[Unit1]

150 millions sold worldwide and we're not counting the dishonest or underground ways of acquiring copies of Fifty Shades of Grey.

This is why young men don't feel they're good enough for women. They can't compete with a wealthy man making his own rapey way into a naive and young girl. Its rrape if they do it but not really rrape if it's Christian Grey doing it.

Ugh. Sorry. I had to get this one out and i'm late to the party. I really love women but sometimes they can be questionable like so.

Yes

No

What? You crazy!

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[lightbulb27]

To some extent, probably do.

What is in control of the deep emotions... passed on from generations of women? After rall... they want to be "entered into"... to reproduce. It's not logical... it's hormonal and wired into them.

What's in control to some large extent... is prior wounds. Whatever is emotionally powerful and repeated is what controls the 800lb female gorilla burried in the sub conscious mind. If you've seen what women endured for millenia, then that would influence.

It would be a mixture of things... thinking logically won't fully work. It's emotional.

But what you can count on the little walnut part of the brain that controls all this... once it is satisfied and the hormones shift after pregnancy or back to normal, the female will change her colors like a chameleon... and you'd better be ready for that.

Gold digging, I don't see that angle, it's a distortion. .. but there is no doubt women go for security and passion, success, wealth, and many other things contribute. A vast pile of riches can be security to some. But it's not the only thing that draws them.

[Unit1]

Ah, yes, the classic security aspect. Money is but one of it. Muscles being another. Hum, not much else comes to mind. Faithfulness?
Anyway, i don't blame women if they go for it. Were i a pretty girl, i'd likely be thinking not too much different but i hope to be smart enough to not bimbofy myself.

[lightbulb27]

For what it's worth, I've seen girls go for guys that don't have much... honestly, guys that are a huge project. Each is a unique person. Security is prime driver, they will go for someone they can control... that is security. Passion is big as well... its fun to be with someone whom is passionate and successful.
in essence, they are nest builders just like birds.
Project success, show your vulnerability (andrew tate ain't gonna agree with that), but show strength... and you'll draw women. Learn to communicate with confidence and giving heart, rather than what you want to take. women can be selfish... they want to receive. when they receive, they will give back much more... often.
good luck!

[Unit1]

Ah, yeah, those are 2 conflicting ideas. Andrew Tate teaches ultimate self-reliance in this cold and harsh world, that no one's coming to save the day and how in general men making things happen and women waiting for things to happen. His ways are not unfounded but they are straight to business.

"If you want people to care about who you are, become familiar with pain."

[lightbulb27]

not sure about that, gotta really think about it.

this guy has some good videos. but I learned from other sources. you get to learn and make sense of it. I did in my own way.
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8uVNhwQH0Fc

[LazerBean]

If.04% of women buying 50 shades of grey (assuming that all of those are bought by women) proves that women are into gold digging and being raped, does that mean that if at least.04% of men have raped then all men are rapists? 🤔

[Unit1]

0.04% is not all. Your logic is nonexistent.

[LazerBean]

Yes the logic there is non-existent. And it's the same logic as your question. That's my point

[Unit1]

You're saying 99% of women aren't gold diggers with rape fantasies?

[LazerBean]

I'm just using your own logic 🤷🏽‍♀️ is that a problem?

[Jennz6]

I don’t think she had a rape fantasy and neither was Ana a Gold Digger. However, she did like being controlled by Christian.

[strateguy632]

it isn't