Girls’ could you fall in love with a guy that had a vasectomy and couldn’t give you babies?

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Now that I am single and had a vasectomy, should I just focus on girls’ that don’t want kids? I am a honest guy and I usually lay everything on the table right from the beginning when I meet a beautiful girl , I don’t want to blind side anyone , I know most younger girls’ want babies and sadly I do not want anymore , My kids are older now , so I can’t see myself starting over. Most females’ I meet say they don’t mind it , because they just want sex , but I want more than just sex , is having a vasectomy a deal breaker for most of you girls’?

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

You not interested in a woman who already has kids (maybe older like yours) and so also don't want more? Having a guy who had a vasectomy is a huge bonus in my book.

I think if you are talking relationships then it is important consideration. So just be honest from the start.

And mindful. As I am.

I will consider a relationship with a guy upto ten years younger than myself but not if he hasn't had kids already because I don't trust he won't decide he wants kids and ditch the relationship a few years down the line. A guy over 40 without kids who says he doesn't want kids I'm more open to trusting.

For you maybe same? In terms of if you get with a woman who's between 30-35 without kids I'd be suspicious she's probably gonna ditch you for kids at some point. 35-45 probably has already. If that don't bother you? Over 40? If they seem pretty positive they've accepted no kids it's probably sage.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Gee, isn't that what they are all clambering about now?
They don't want to have sex or babies anymore.

Plus women want to poison men too!

I think a guy with a vasectomy would be a plus for the guy. He'd be a commodity!

DrPepper12 · Accepted Answer

Yup. No problem. At a certain point getting snipped to go rawdog just makes sense so you only have to worry about disease.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

they will be relieved...

SueShe · Answer

Wouldn't that be the dream for a great number of women?

However, it takes substantially more than just a guy that has had a vasectomy. What about that guy's character, what about his personality? what about his intellect?

Falling in love is one thing but if it is the wrong guy, then it is not of much help.

Now, if only this guy would not want to fornicate, then it would be a real treat for all those that are not interested in that kind of activity. There are so much more you can do with a person who is compatible intellectually and has a good character and personality but is not a slave of his testosterone.

avery58 · Answer

I could fall in love but it would be pretty disappointing. I'd like to think that he would tell me before I developed strong feelings for him and would let me choose if I want to stay or not knowing that.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

I don’t want kids so that would be ideal for me. The worst thing you can do is to lead someone on who doesn’t want just sex and dreams of children someday

RageBabe · Answer

I could fall in love, but since I want to have children, I'm not sure if I would pursue a relationship with them; this is something I need to ponder more.

Apple1996 · Answer

That'd be ideal for women who don't want kids or who already have kids and are done. My hubby is planning on getting snipped after our next baby. It'll be a relief to not have to worry about birth control anymore

amizen · Answer

I would say yes because some women are children themselves and can’t raise a child the wise way. I would prefer men who don’t have kids like me but if a guy is attractive to me physically and mentally then I can consider if he has children. Like I would still want to be the most important person in his life.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If I were 34+ then yes because I’m not really trying to birth kids after 32

smashleyy · Answer

Unlikely but that’s mainly cause of my age. Even tho im still 50/50 about having kids I wouldn’t want to waste time with someone who has already experienced parenthood and has since closed the door on reliving it

Squishyfeet · Answer

Huge plus for me. Kids are expensive, and I’m not looking to have one.

ihateTaylorSwift · Answer

I don't think I can even have any myself
So yeah I wouldn't mind

My mom even jokes about it once
She said with all the sex you and him had
I'm still surprised you didn't come out pregnant

And that's cuz I never even used birth control in my life

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve got a tubal. I only pursue men that have already had kids and he has to be involved 51% at least. It helps me browse easier to my preferences.

BK2482047329 · Answer

I mean it doesn't really matter to me if they can't give you babies its about there personality for me

AngelLily · Answer

Focus on women who don’t want or can’t have kids

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

If he treats me well, had an education and money why not. We could adopt

itsannalee · Answer

That’s good idea for women who child free, but mostly guys who do that are old man lol.

NewWaves · Answer

Yes I could fall in love. Emotions and all. But I hope for the strength to say no to being with him. I want kids.

alice55 · Answer

That would be a deal breaker to me but I'm young

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

yup i dont want kids, loads of women dont want kids

lowkanymous · Answer

personally no, i wanna live out my picket fence dream with 5 kids a dog and a cat

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