Girls would you ever date a guy who had a vasectomy?

[24Hopelessvirgin]

And couldn't have kids? I'm 23. And I know I'm young. But I don't ever want the responsibility of kids. And it would be nice not to worry about it. I could never let a kid grow up having nothing.

[Poppie07]

You shouldn't be worried, but yet you kinda should. I mean it's your choice and your body do as you please and whomever you are with should respect that. Buttttt basically ALL women want kid's in the future so you should date a chick who doesn't want kid's. .. even if she has her own. I personally wouldn't date a guy who has a V and never wanted kid's because i want your fucking kids (crazy eyes). I want kid's but NO time soon. I probably wouldn't date him long. But love is about compromising soooo you could change ur view or she could who know's. Now if you just couldn't produce children well that's another story and I'm sorry to hear that. I'd prob date him but that would cause some problems in the relationship. Let's be honest. I'd be heartbroken honestly because I'd want OUR kid. Adoption is a great option, but not the same. Hmmm I don't know that's tough. And you're only 23 you have time to build your way up to provide.. dude chill lol you'll be able to provide something not much I don't know but something.

[ZenQueen]

I am the same way... If I'm going to be a parent I want to be the best and that's so much pressure I think I might not even have kids at all, which is fine with me... more time and money for myself to travel, and live a comfortable, carefree life... but then why not just be single? I'm am still young so I can't give a real answer, you are way young too, maybe you can freeze some sperm at least? haha

[IHateMeganFox]

Yes, I would.

[IHateMeganFox]

Thanks for BA.

[kheserthorpe]

Just don't tell them. Tell them you want to have kids. Have lots of sex. Get dumped when she realizes. Repeat.

[samhradh_ean]

I want kids. I'm open to alternative methods of becoming a parent, so I would date someone who had a vasectomy. But I would NOT date someone who knew they never wanted kids, and wouldn't compromise for someone who did, vasectomy or no.

[thewanderingme]

no. I want kids. no point dating a guy with no potention for progression.

[JackKerouac77]

Adopt?

Tin cans?
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[thewanderingme]

@jackkerouac77 I want to have at least 1 of my own.

[JackKerouac77]

But you can't always get what you want? Mick Jagger even said so?

Based God?

[thewanderingme]

@jackkerouac77 what do you mean based god?

I'll get what I want.

[JackKerouac77]

Based God?

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lil_B

[Lena19]

I would. Plus that we could have sex without the worry of unwanted pregnancy.

[Izzy_21]

I wouldn't want a guy who doesn't want kids, so no. If he couldn't have them for other reasons, there may be ways, but that way no, I wouldn't date him

[Izzy_21]

btw I think you're making the wrong decision as you are only 23. Many men don't want kids that age but really want to 10 years later. Also most doctor probably wouldn't do it with men your age, you're gonna have to look a while

[shotou]

there are also some girls

who doesn't want children, you

just need to find them =)

[Anonymous]

No, I want children. Sorry, but I could never date a guy who did that. I think it's selfish.

[24Hopelessvirgin]

I repesct your decision. But I don't see how its selfish. Having kids you can't support and causing them to suffer as a result is selfish.

[Opinion Owner]

That changes when you get married and share an income. Why not just work hard so that you'll be in a position to where you can provide for them? Why feel sorry for yourself and decide not to have kids at all when you could get off your a*ss and be a hard worker for them?

[24Hopelessvirgin]

why have kids just for the sake of having kids? If I die without ever having reproduced does that mean my life was worthless? And my dad worked his ass off his whole life for me and we still struggled. So don't assume because somebody doesn't want kids there lazy.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say your life was worthless if you die without having children. I didn't ASSume that someone must be lazy if they don't want kids. I said YOU sound lazy.

[24Hopelessvirgin]

why am I lazy then?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess I'd have to hear more about his reasoning as to why he did it, but I do want children.

[JackKerouac77]

But your account is inactive?

[thewanderingme]

hmmmmm, interesting.

[JackKerouac77]

@thewanderingme
Obviously runnin' from the po-po

[linkywinky]

Yes! Absolutely.