What to do when others witness you being bullied and do nothing?

[Anonymous]

there is this girl in my class who i like and i got the nerve to talk with her today but before i could someone started bullying me and now im worried she will hate me or make fun of me if i go talk to her. she is very popular and well liked to makeing me think she could care less what happens to me in the first place and would not even defend me in the future if she saw it happen do i approach her now or no?

[Anonymous]

It’ll never change young sit. Ideally I would say not to get into a confrontation, but sometimes you have to. So you have to figure something out as far as boosting your confidence. Maybe some sort of martial arts. Martial arts isn’t just about fighting, it’s about discipline, learning to control yourself, among other things. Even if you build that confidence somehow, that’s not going to be enough to defend yourself physically if need be. Even if she was your girl she should t have to defend you. Women look to men in most cases for leadership, to defend and protect her. So if a girl is having to constantly defend you, she’s not going to like that. She’s not going to feel secure if some dude came at her and you could t protect her.

[ClassicDropout]

Well shit man I don't know. You gotta do something about the bullying before other people will want to

[Anonymous]

You man up and deal with it.