Girls, Girl acted interested then suddenly play hard to get or mind game?

[Anonymous]

Hello people I'm new here

Okay first I'm religious man I rarely approach any woman unless I see she's wifey material I met this girl accidentally in the supermarket we had good eye contact and a smile later I met her again in car parking I did wait to make sure to make my move since I met many manipulative girls before some girl could fake interest just to have the man approach her then reject him anyway I did watch till she was inside her car I walked toward her with caution then when I was in front of her door window she was like searching something in her bag I didn't knock or talk I just left the scene. Is that playing hard? Or she was manipulative at the first place?

I didn't approach her because I was too obvious but she didn't show enough care to me so I calculated that she's not the one for me.

[SueShe]

You state that you rarely approach any women yet you did approach this girl just because you made eye contact. This seems to be a different policy than what you state originally.

One would never approach a girl after just a second or two having eye contact. She was not really playing any games with you but you mistook her smiling at you as an invitation for more.

Basically, what you did in that car park was stalking her, waiting for her to get to her car and then attempt to contact her. She could have been searching for her car keys, her smartphone or a tissue.

Smiling at someone does not mean one is interested in that person.

[Anonymous]

Your tactic doesn’t work. Eye contact and smiling does not make a woman wife material. You will never know if a woman is truly wife material until you actually talk to her.

Watching and approaching a woman’s car while she’s obviously preparing to leave also doesn’t make you husband material.

[mandyfire98]

How did she manipulate when you didn't even talk to her at all? By smiling? Smiling means nothing at all. It's just being nice.

[Asker]

I thought eye contact and cute smile Is a sign
My bad anyway I didn't talk to her this or that way
I think I saved myself since she was just acting nice , right?

[mandyfire98]

Probably just acting nice. A lot of people make eye contact and smile. That's inconclusive really. Definitely wasn't manipulative though.

[Asker]

Thank you , I honestly thought it was a sign
Im thankful saved myself and walked away.

[mandyfire98]

Well that's the thing. Just smiling isn't enough to know if she would've given you her number. She might have, a smile isn't enough to go off of.

[Anonymous]

How old are you really?

[Asker]

Your question is not related to my question