If a guy asked why you wouldn't go out with him, would you lie or tell the truth?

[debtfree_oneyear]

[GOLDFISH_smile]

I'd just pick one of the many reasons that sounds most polite or helpful. Like "I'm married" is enough reason.

If there was another big reason tho I may tell him, like "because you are being pushy, and I don't like that." Could help him in the future to know that.

[Nikki1989]

If he was nice to me and show some good manners, I would show him the same in return and let him down as nicely as I can. The truth usually hurts with men, so it sometimes easier to not go there.

[debtfree_oneyear]

What do you mean the "truth usually hurts with men"?

[Abbycado]

I'd just say I don't think we are a good fit, which would be the truth.

@mandyfire98 is the right "fit"

[mandyfire98]

Fit this 👅

[debtfree_oneyear]

I guess I can understand that but as a guy hearing a women say we are not a "good fit" leads to more confusion than clarity

[Jessica405]

Tell the truth. No point in doing otherwise. Eventually the truth would probably come out anyway.

[debtfree_oneyear]

But what if the real reason is something silly?

a woman once said she wouldn't date me because of the color of my car...

I know you don't know, but do you think she was telling the truth?

If so, isn't that a little weird?

[Jessica405]

Seems a possible reason. Many people thing getting into a green car is dangerous.

[debtfree_oneyear]

To me it seems like an odd reason and like not the real reason

[Jessica405]

She might tell a friend, who tells another friend. Eventually the true reason might be told to you via a circuitous route.

[mandyfire98]

I'd tell the truth

[debtfree_oneyear]

a woman once said she wouldn't date me because of the color of my car...

I know you don't know, but do you think she was telling the truth?

If so, isn't that a little weird?

[mandyfire98]

That's definitely an odd reason

[debtfree_oneyear]

I have a ton of stories I could tell you like that. Another woman said I can't date you because my shoes squeaked when I walked

[mandyfire98]

🤣🤣 what? That's some wild ass reasons.

[debtfree_oneyear]

You'd be surprised by amongst my friends and coworkers those reasons are not that strange

[mandyfire98]

They're pretty strange. Definitely not normal