Why would a guy ask you out if he wasn’t sure about you?

always see this cute guy around and I’m friendly and flirty with him. I didn’t feel any interest coming from him. Surprisingly, he asked for my number. He didn’t text me until almost 3 days later. He seems very aloof and disinterested when texting me, taking up to 8 hours to respond back. He lets the conversation die. I text him again a few days later, he promptly asks me on a date. I’m surprised because I’m sure he’s not that interested. We go on the date and he seems pretty shy and nervous. I have no idea what’s going on in his head.

He calls me later that night and arranged another date. We went out about 6 times, he was very physically affectionate, liked to kiss and make out a lot. I held his hand often. He’d ask me on a date everytime i texted him to check in. But he never really texted me first. I am starting to get really tired of his nonchalant attitude, trying to figure out his intentions. I confront him, he says he understands how I feel and we should stop seeing each other. ?

He said he doesn’t feel anything for me, he doesn’t think about me when I’m not there, and that I’m out of sight, out of mind for him. I’m a little stunned. He says he wants to end things but we can still “hang out” sometimes. He’s never even pushed for sex. He doesn’t attempt to hang out and in fact dodges hanging out with me. I wonder if I’ve done something to make him so avoidant of me. He seems to avoid me like the plague. He says it’s nothing I did, it’s him (yeah ok ) and then he completely stops contacting me and starts ignoring my existence in public. What was the point? Like I said, he never pushed for sex. I told him if he wanted to be friends he could have began with that and I would have been fine but now it’s super awkward and I don’t know what just happened.

Why would a guy ask you out if he wasn’t sure about you?
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