Would you date a guy, if he told you this?

[Joan890]

Hi people of Gag, so I've been talking to this guy I met online for the past few months. At first, he seemed really really nice and cool. We've been chatting for hours every day and talking about meeting in real life and actually invited me for holidays, where he lives.
Recently however, I found out something that worries me.
He said that it took him "years to find a girl even halfway decent looking off the dating service". It also seems that he has really high standards in terms of looks, fitness (and he seems to call almost all women who don't look like they're 18 anymore "hags").

Although he says he likes me, this is giving me extreme anxiety and puts a lot of pressure on me. Even if I don't get rejected, so basically I will always have to look like a supermodel, otherwise the guy will dump me.
What's your opinion about this?

[Yucy_Gluttony]

halfway decent? What the. I would definitely not be dating this man. If you're together, and you don't look 18 anymore, which will happen if you two make it work. You will beeeeee aaaaaaaaa Hag. You know it, I know it, he knows it. What's up with that weird mindset

[dramaticass]

If I were you I will play this against him😜. I'll tell him about my "standards"😂 and indirectly compare him with other guys making Him feel insecure.

[Luggit]

Reject him, it doesn't sound right. Go by your inner feelings.

[Avicenna]

His comments should be an automatic dealbreaker

[Joan890]

Could you elaborate a bit why do you say that? Do you think this person is very picky, and might reject or dump me (some day)?

[Avicenna]

There's no shortage of reasons why, but among them are

1) He has no respect for women
2) He's jaded from previous experiences
3) He won't value you as a person
4) He has unrealistic standards

And that's just what's obvious from his comments. This person may be abusive as well.

[Agape93]

Dump him immediately

[Joan890]

Yeah right, I don't think anything good can come out of this. I just wish I knew all this stuff before investing so much time :/

[Agape93]

It happens. Best to cut it off now before you waste even more time.

[In_Trance]

Block him

[Joan890]

Could you elaborate a bit? Do you think it's a waste of time or that it won't have a good ending?

[In_Trance]

Yes to both

[ImNoOne111]

Red flag, red flag red flag

[douride2]

I would say goodbye.