How come men want young women when they’re older, but older women dont want younger?

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this is in general so ill hide anyone that says ”i dont do it” ur a waste of time

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it’s biology. I don’t think it has to do w immaturity as one person put it. Plus older women usually have a lot of baggage like children, maybe a couple divorces, mental issues. Women tend to carry a lot of their issues w them throughout life. A lot of men will turn that negative life experience into sketching, not all but a lot. Younger women aren’t as argumentative. No this ain’t about controlling them either or manipulating them as other women would say. A lot of times these older women wanted to run around, sleep around, then they hit a point where they realized they don’t have a man, no kids, no marriage. Now they’re mad no men really want them. So they start throwing out things like misogyny or manipulative, etc. At an older age men seem to have way more as far as finances, experiences. Life doesn’t treat men and women the same when we get older. Older men are usually preferred by a lot of women, but not in reverse. A man making more money is usually more attractive to women, but it doesn’t work the other way around. You get women are likely to near healthier children. Maybe a man put a marriage and a family in the back burner till he built himself up, now that he’s ready he wants a girl who can give them healthy children. It’s funny how the one person pointed out that so many men watch porn. Yes that happens. But instead of always playing the men for it maybe these women should take responsibility and stop making porn. I don’t see how women can be mad at men for consuming it when it’s their own gender making it.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

When I was 16 and a half I was babysitting for some lady and when she got back to her house the person that she was with asked me if I wanted a ride home I said yes come to find out she lives like two blocks from me but we stopped at her house we started talking and went to another but I went out with her for like or actually go out out with her or even better I just saw her everyday for over a year she was 47
And then she told me that she was going to get back with her husband and I never knew that she was even married but then she introduced me to a 37 or 36 year old and I went out with her for over a year.

And now that I'm older I have dated younger women I had worked with a couple guys that were married they were way younger than me but it was their wives that introduced me to girls because the wife said that I was a good person and that they wanted to hang around with me more because I would teach their husbands not to be so immature
But younger women like to go out and do things and have fun with my age want to be home buddies sit around and I am motivated I like moving keep doing things that are fun energetic there are a lot of older women that like younger guys

Okay so what's the rest of your question mean something like you will hide them if they say you don't

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So I've actually been dating a guy 13 years younger than me for the past 8 months. We have a fantastic relationship, and we both think things are going to work out long term. Most importantly, we both love each other and are deeply committed to one another

However, at first I was extremely hesitant to give the relationship a try. I think I said "no" to a first date 3 or so times before I gave him any kind of decent shot, and that's because I was so hung up on the age gap. I was so convinced there was no way I (as a single mom of two kids) could possibly have any kind of maturity compatibilty with a guy that much younger. Also, I thought we probably just came from such completely different places in life our life goals could never be conpatible. I was worried he was only interested in me because of some older woman fantasy, and he'd inevitably drop me for a girl his age or younger. I never thought a guy his age would be interested in real commitment in a relationship with a woman who was in a place in life I am in. Consequently, I at first just didn't even dream of the possibility of ever even considering having a relationship with a guy so much younger

However, over time (and because he is just so incredibly charming, sexy, attractive, and persistant) I eventually gradually opened my mind just enough to give him a decent chance. However, that took a fair amount of time and effort. Moreover, I think there are a lot of women who never open up to that possibility at all (because of all the concerns I had)

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I think a lot of it has to do with immaturity. Those old men who prefer younger women never have their view of beauty evolve with them as they age. Women are usually more mature and their view of beauty/attraction grows with them as a they age so a older man will look attractive to them as they age.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Because for younger women youth and fertility has always been an important factor.. So naturally most men would be more attracted to a young, fertile woman.. Whereas it's not the same for men.. More of the the opposite for women and men.. Women like more Experience and stability.. Since women are not as visual as men, and men can have healthy babies for a long time, youth and fertility are not important for men..

jahaims · Answer

You are generalizing too much. Most young guys don't want older women and most older guys don't want much younger women. If an older guy is with a much younger woman then he is in it just for the sex, not for a romantic relationship. A younger guy that wants a much older woman usually has unresolved trauma which is usually mommy issues.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

One reason is absolutely because society and especially porn fetishize young women.

Anonymous · Answer

It's simple human nature really. The things that make a woman valuable to men peak in their early 20s and then decrease with age from that point forward, whereas the things that make men valuable to women only begin to materialize in their late 20s to early 30s and then continue to increase until they peak around age 50,

LiamS95 · Answer

I don't want any particular age but I get both younger and older women hitting on me all the time.

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

Older women are cat ladies 😅😂😅

bowenw · Answer

Some older women do want younger guys.

Adel50 · Answer

Would you want someone younger than you?

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