Why do men in their 30’s want girls in their 20’s? Why don’t they want more mature and responsible women?

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Girls my age are disgusting h*es.

You don’t want to know where they’ve been. They just have such low self esteem and respect for themselves.

Not just that but they’re so loud, naggy, spoiled, entitled and immature. They act like teenage girls.

So if you want that then sure go ahead.

But it’s still kinda perverted to me.

To date girls that are still intellectually and behaviorally underage.

I’d rather date an actual grown woman, no thanks.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

I’m guessing it’s just a physical attraction thing.

Like those girls who want handsome tall men that would make great fathers.

Many men I’m guessing want young beautiful women that would also make great mothers.

But it’s really hard to find people who simultaneously have 10/10 looks and a 10/10 personality.

It’s idealistic, and it seems both men and women want to have their cake and eat it too.

For me, emotional connection and depth is paramount. And, healthy and mature communication and conflict resolution is a must. Things like integrity and honesty and sincerity are extremely important to me.

Everyone will grow old. But their soul is forever. As cheesy as it might sound, it’s really important for me to be with someone that has a beautiful soul.

So, being young and beautiful is great and all, but there are FAR more important things to prioritize.

And for guys in their 30’s that believe looks are everything?

They’re going to have very shallow and empty and unfulfilling relationships.

If they think that’s how they’re going find a wife, they’re kidding themselves.

A woman worth marrying is a woman of virtue, and that’s hard to find.

peedy · Accepted Answer

Youth equals fertility
Back when we lived in caves the dominant male would take all the females leaving the younger weaker males with nothing years pass and the dominant male grows old and the younger male has grown stronger and wiser is now capable of overthrowing the dominant male but the females his age are used up so he takes the younger females from the previous dominant male this also decreases inbreeding
Also the females want a male to provide and protect when the males are younger they are not able to do that so he needs that time to grow stronger and learn how and where to find food so it is beneficial for both sexes to survive, that is why men always want younger women and women always want older men even after we have advanced in technology and understanding of how the world works and society has evolved those instincts that sub-conscience thinking that our brains were wire to survive still exists
So many problems that we have in society today can be explained and solved if we look back to when we lived in caves and how we developed to survive

Paulalove98 · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy really, not all guys want women in their 20s, some people still prefer someone close in age but typically men like younger women for attraction, less baggage than what an older woman could have, and for some men in their 30s sometimes women in their 30s are already married or already gone through divorce with kids and men would rather go for a woman in her 20s who is single with no kids so it’s less drama and less baggage. There are still some 30 year old women though who are single and no baggage but nowadays it’s just more harder to find as finding a partner in general is. I personally would go either or dating a guy my age, older but not too old, or a bit younger, I just don’t think I’d go for a guy as young as 18 though for anything serious given he just finished high school, is still maturing and what not. I do agree with your point that some girls in their 20s are immature still, I think if the age difference is more than 10 or 12 years it’s hard to share any interest with that person and catch up to them.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

I've noticed guys my own age 29-31 keep getting with woman younger and younger. Guys my own age do not appreciate good house wife beautiful 30 year old woman.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, women in their 30s are more likely to have kids. That alone has some guys looking at younger women.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

It comes down to preference at the end of the day. The argument most presented is that young women tend to be their most beautiful and fertile to have healthy kids in their twenties.

Now, with that said, it still comes down each individual and what they value. Example, my girlfriend is 6 years younger than me. Didn't plan on meeting her or expect much when we went on pur first date and here we are going on over 2 1/2 years. We met, we clicked and value the same things which is key. Beauty only goes so far. If you can't stand someone at their core, it won't work out in the end.

If you prefer older women, knock yourself out. No one is stopping you. That is YOUR preference. Whether or not mature women will want you in return is another story. Women these days value independence, having careers and being able to have freedom to do what they want. A lot of them don't like the idea of being a stay at home wife or traditional wife for that matter.

Personally I think you are writing women your age off quick. Get better at connecting with them and you may be surprised at finding that there are some great ones. Mature women that have their shit together are going to want a man similar to them. One who is established, good career and knows how to communicate. If they feel they have to act like a mom/man in the relationship, you will be dropped quick. Just food for thought.

Anonymous · Answer

It is not accurate or fair to generalize all men in their 30s as wanting to date women in their 20s. People have different preferences and attractions, and it is important to respect and accept individual differences. Additionally, it is not fair to label all women in their 20s as "disgusting h*es" or to make assumptions about their self-esteem, respect, or behavior. These statements are harmful and contribute to negative stereotypes and attitudes towards women. It is important to treat people with respect and to value them for who they are as individuals, regardless of their age or gender.

Anonymous · Answer

There is no such thing as a responsible or mature woman. They are all immature mentally and few if any ever take responsibility for shit. The immature, spoiled, and entitled shit never goes away.

almost all men want youth because it’s physically more appealing and mentally has less baggage, and are more likely to have seen fewer cock than an overused, expired, former hoe.

yes, I agree that young females today have zero dignity, class, morals, or self respect… but old hags used to be those young females but have the added use and mental baggage of a withered old bag of dicks.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Because they are not mature and responsible. They spent all their prime years messing around with bad guys and going for guys based off looks, most of them now have kids with other guys and i won't be with these women.

I don't want to take on their kids, many are victims of domestic abuse thanks to them going for toxic guys. I don't want to take that on.

Plus, im doing it out of principal. They most likely would have rejected me when i was younger

LazerBean · Answer

One could say the same about boys your age, but that would be equally silly. I don't get why you would put out such friendly fire.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Because women in their 30s aren't any better. In many cases, the older women are even worse because they have more emotional baggage to deal with.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I'm into women my own age. I wouldn't want someone much younger.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Did you just ask the question to trash women?  Some guys want to marry and start a family.

Anonymous · Answer

For starters they are cheaper. They have more energy, they generally don't have kids, hotter bodies. Will remain hot for longer.

Juxtapose · Answer

There are plenty of stupid older women. I judge them on an individual basis.

In_Trance · Answer

Men are biologically wired to find pureness and youthfulness attractive.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

They suck in bed too. All of them

Exterminatore · Answer

Because no one gets better looking with age.

notwoke · Answer

experiecne will teach you differently

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