Why do some people think young men want older women but young women don't want older men?

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It's common sense that both girls and boys are attracted to much older men in their teens but some people think girls don't want it.

Levin · Accepted Answer

Women try to make men feel like paedos for finding girls in their 20s attractive.

At work it was happening today. There's a girl in her early 20s here. She's sensational.

She's actually in shape too, which is a miracle today.

I guess I had to keep my mouth shut, today, haha.

Women don't seem to understand our brains are wired completely differently to each other.

They say, or 'she's just a kid'. 'I need a man'. We want exactly the opposite. Yet the shaming commences, because they know we desire them rather than her.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

Young women wanting older men is because they can pick the better quality ones. They want the older men that are tall, strong, stayed in shape so they know it is a lifestyle choice that is unlikely to change, and they want the intelligent ones.

They don't want the older men that are short, out of shape (skinny and weak or 100 + pounds overweight) or that had bad genes and went bald early, or became an alcoholic, etc.

They can more easily see a pattern of life choices to pick the good quality ones.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Lots of girl like older people of the gender they’re attracted to. But lots don’t. It’s probably like half and half.

Angel_ica · Accepted Answer

When I turn 18 I had few older man and it was good for me

paledreams · Answer

I'm 30 and I find many women aged 18-24 are checking me out (all legitimate adult women) so I guess they must like me being an older man (and legally, it's all good) as eye candy even though I'm just a humble stranger walking past and I could pass for age 23 or 24 lol with my good looks

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

When young men want older women is usually for sex only and the woman can't be that old but later 30's to maybe early 50's.

Young women want older men but not men that can be their father or grandpa unless she's looking to cash in on the old dude.

Anonymous · Answer

It's no secret that females in their teens and 20s are attracted to older men. But what you say here about males is not exactly true. Guys in their teens, and maybe very early 20s are sometimes attracted to women a few years older than them, but it's not nearly as common, and beyond early 20s it's pretty much non existent.

Anonymous · Answer

younger women going after older men and vice versa is rooted in biology

younger men going after older women and vice versa is derived from being leftovers because younger women aren't going after younger men and older men aren't going after older women

this would be the equivalent of white women going after Asian men since white men are going after Asian women

ProbablyClueless · Answer

This is G@G. People here think a bunch of insane crap and then try to force their bizarre world view onto others.

Anonymous · Answer

People are stupid. They create all kind of false realities that they build their world view around. Then put up walls and stick thier fingers in thier ears and hide in thier safe space.

If that's the way the want to live thier life so be it. It gives me all kids of entertainment on this site watching them ask 100 variations of the same question till they either get angry and walk away or until someone gives them the answer they want to hear.😆

AviatorTom · Answer

Maybe those people don't understand reality...

Drelikee · Answer

Every now and then some young girls do. But Knows it's only acceotable to talk. But really the rare friends I make who are like 13, 12-14 I feel morr like an uncle so I won't talk very often to them, just in a few messages back and forth. And then purposely kind of just disappeared like where it looks like it was an accident

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Are these "some people" mostly other men? Other men that are probably just jelly that a 42-year-old guy can bang a 16-year-old, while he couldn't even talk her into a blow job?

ceirra22 · Answer

I want older men, I have daddy issues that I won't get into, but older men know how to do some things better

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Don't know, but as a young man I didn't want older women, but as a Golden Boy desire younger gals !!!

zagor · Answer

When I was 30 a lot more 20 year old girls showed interest than when I was 20.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Men are typically attracted to younger women because women's value is tied to their youth. Women are typically attracted to older men because men's value is tied to their financial status.

slatyb · Answer

People think a lot of things. The reasons are not important.

Loki97 · Answer

Feminists hate the idea because they think they will have the same value in their 30’s and 40’s that they had in their 20’s.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are balding and ugly. Women don't want that.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm older and my much younger fiance is madly in love with me. And vice versa.

Pete671 · Answer

Maybe it's a biological thing to do with reproduction?

AhmetHasanCan · Answer

When a man is young, he wants a mature woman. When a man gets older, he wants a young girl. :)

gintare_370 · Answer

I personally want someone experience like he knew what is have to be done.

Peggee4U · Answer

Personally at 74 I don't find it too difficult to attract females in their 20's and 30's. Keeping up with however is another matter altogether :)

Celticwolf78 · Answer

It's because they don't know how to get over it because they don't understand

Finchie40 · Answer

Because they are brains dead lol

ehatsham_hussain · Answer

Different people can think different..

krin_m · Answer

My girlfriends are younger than me.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Oh, enough do 😉

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