Why have most women stopped wanting to grow with guys & develop together?

[Anonymous]

[CuriousMoonFox]

Developing means unfinished product which in turn means work. Have you counted the times women used the term "immature"? They want a mature man but not help the man mature. Why? Because they don't want to be his mother. Why? Because among other things, being a mother means, you guessed it, work.

People don't want to work unless they love working. Most don't. They work because they have to. Do women have to work with regards to men? They don't think so.

Relationships are sometimes compared to investing. Investing is a risky business. Have you noticed women to be overly aggressive in taking risks? Especially the asset class "man" has a bad reputation these days so from what I hear they either stay away from the market entirely or place their bets on the top performing, established stocks even though the return is meagre.

Then again, it could all just be rumors because women here and everywhere swear that they are only waiting for you to invite them to work hard and invest in a shared future. In any case I'd wager that your chances of finding an investor will be better after you have become at least a reasonably performing stock... that is also handsome, sexy, confident but not arrogant, a rockstar between the sheets, caring, sharing, intelligent, emotional but not too emotional, loyal but mysterious, communicative but not like a girlfriend, mature but not old, stable but not boring, exciting but not chaotic... I'm reaching the maximum length allowed for the post 😉

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the woman not all women are the same and neither are all men. It’s both sexes it’s just a people problem that a lot of people have become self centered and narcissistic. Not everyone has though.

Finding the right person for YOU takes time and effort. Who is right for you isn’t necessarily right for someone else just remember that everyone is looking for something different.

Some people refuse to grow and want someone to deal with all their issues but refuse to grow with someone. Don’t waste your time on women like that who are pathetic.

[Anonymous]

This is all I ever wanted. I grew with my boyfriend. He wasn't successful yet when I met him. And we're already talking about marriage and kids. He moved me into his new house and pays the bills. He made less than 40k a year when he met. And now he will pay for my career if I decide to go that route.

[HighValue]

He made close to 40k and you think he wasn't successful?
And now you want to financially abuse him by using him to pay for you to get a career?
How terrible for him.
See men, you need to be wealthy and have a good income (not just a little above average) to get a selfish woma, so she can abuse you financially, then once she does have that degree that YOU pay for, she can divorce you and take what you earned, then after the settlement start working in her new career while you are destitute.

[WowGIrl4ever]

@HighValue I feel highvalue is more than 40k

[HighValue]

You said he wasn't "successful " by that number, not high value.
And only very selfish users want the man to pay for her college/career.

[WowGIrl4ever]

@HighValue got it

[Staximus]

You sound like a manipulative bum

[WowGIrl4ever]

@Staximus semantics

[emeraldsaphire]

I kinda feel like it's the guys who are doing this more often, but that's probably just our perspectives. Most people aren't going to want what we want. So we need to find the few that we are compatible with.

[ProbablyClueless]

As someone else said, there are still lots of women out there willing to put in that work, but the truth is that ones who aren't willing have had a lifetime of experiences with trying to put in the work for someone who couldn't be bothered to return the favor.

[McLlovin]

They looking for the bag. Western women dont got time for all that get to know you stuff and struggle together. Struggle is a bad word lol. You better be 7 foot 10 with 7 figures lol. Better go find you a filipino chick. Most Western women today are high maintenance or looking for unrealistic expectations.

[Anonymous]

Probably because a lot of them have been brainwashed to hate men. We don’t need no men attitude. They’ve been brainwashed to think they can do everything a man can do, but in reality many of them really can’t. Eventually they will reach an age where they realize they’re all alone, then that’s when the scrambling really start. A race against Mother Nature.

[Lynnzee]

Sometimes that I don't need man attitude came froma women that wanted a great relationship but ended with a man that wasn't helpful, wasn't supportive and she realized if I don't do it for myself or my family it may not happen... she really wants that healthy relationship

[Opinion Owner]

@Lynnzee could be, but a lot of women put their happiness before everything else.

[HighValue]

Most women are greedy, selfish, and lazy. They want to contribute almost nothing and expect great rewards. Especially American women. They are some of the most vile, unfair, disloyal, and delusional ones you could ever meet.

[ABC29]

Because many women want a finished product and don't want to wait for it. From a man's perspective. If a woman helps you grow, it's a good sign and the relationship has the potential to last a long time.

[LeatherDame]

Because the women emotionally matured significantly faster and feel like they’ve left the boy behind.

[Agape93]

Uh we haven't, just because they aren't growing with you

[Nikki1989]

We haven't, but I am sure you don't know MOST women either.

[WowGIrl4ever]

Facts

[HelpfulWoman]

Your failed love life doesn't equal fact. stop embarassing yourself

[Anonymous]

Because if she does he leaves her for someone else when he grew. It happens a lot.

[Asker]

I wouldn't want to personally especially If we have chemistry.

[KrakenAttackin]

That's bullshit. Women are the ones who leave with cash and prizes.

[zagor]

Maybe they discovered that guys who want to sit around with their bong and beer at 20 often have the same priorities at 40.

[KrakenAttackin]

When you believe you are a perfect "10", you don't need to grow, it's up to the man to "match your vibe".

[Crazzyyworld]

Einstein said that men are not designed to be with one woman

[MrFrenchFry]

Feminism will be seen as a great evil in the 19th century. Worse that communism and fascism.

[Abbycado]

They haven’t. That’s a load of shit.