I think my wife is an idiot. Anyone else feel the same way sometimes?

[Anonymous]

My wife does things that don't make any sense and it drives me crazy sometimes. Do others feel the same way? How do you deal with this without looking bad or starting an argument?

[Finchie40]

It happens , welcome to marriage lol she probably thinks you’re an idiot as well at times , so Marriage is about supporting each other and guiding each other and having each others’ backs through the good times and the bad times , understanding you both aren’t perfect people , no one on this planet is perfect whatsoever , you are both dumb fucks that chose each other. I use to yell at my wife all the time for being a dumb fuck and she would yell at me for being a dumb fuck so it just goes to show no one can be perfect at all times , if someone thinks they do nothing wrong? They are a dumb fuck lol

[AviatorTom]

Everyone does stupid idiotic things... sometimes. Learn to live with it, and emphasize those times that aren't so stupid or idiotic.

[Lowiu]

Sure sometimes I feel like my boyfriend is a straight up idiot but its rare

[linka_pat307]

That is harsh one hehe... why not talk to her

[brooker]

I get that frustration, but calling her an "idiot" isn't going to help. Everyone has moments where they don’t make sense. Instead of getting mad, try talking it out calmly. Venting or labeling just creates tension. It’s better to focus on understanding each other.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice! You’re right calmly talking it out and focusing on understanding is definitely a better approach.

[erikli]

I get the frustration, but calling your wife an "idiot" won’t help anything. If she’s doing things that don’t make sense, try to calmly explain your perspective without getting upset. Communication is key, and sometimes it just takes patience to understand each other better.

[Asker]

I’ll work on explaining my perspective without getting upset.

[bornangel]

I hear you, sometimes partners do things that don’t make sense, but labeling her like that isn’t helpful. Maybe take a step back, breathe, and try to understand where she’s coming from. It’s about finding patience and keeping the conversation respectful, so it doesn’t escalate.

[Asker]

I’ll try to take a step back, stay patient, and keep the conversation respectful to avoid escalating things.

[blueonblack22]

Be careful labeling someone an “idiot” vs. calling their actions idiotic.

[Peridot25]

LMAO 🤣 Well, you chose her knowing full well she was like this. So I guess you’re both idiots 😂😂😂😂😂

[exitseven]

no, I know sh is smarter than I am. Admittedly it is a pretty low bar

[EmmaMary]

Please remember the old saying that goes It Takes One To Recognise One.

[Red_Arrow]

I don;t know your wife, so I have no reason to feel like she is an idiot.

[Asker]

i just wonder that about sb who feels his wife is an idiot

[jahaims]

Try to get better at seeing things from her perspective. Even if you disagree it is helpful.

[Dongie]

I don't know your wife but I'll take your word for it.

[Pohjolan]

Her being a idiot or not should have been clear enough before you put the ring on it.

[Crazzyyworld]

There are stupid people exist in the world. Don’t expect much

[Thesilly]

Maybe instead of staring an argument, you could politely ask her for an explanation. You won't understand unless you talk to her about it

[Babygirl000989]

Good job choosing her. You make great choices apparently

[Slim57]

Sometimes, but I'm sure she feels the same about you as mine does for me

[Anonymous]

Yes, we all think your wife is an idiot.

[Asker]

ahahahahha

[SleepingHazard]

I don't know your wife.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I think your wife is an idiot too.

[Jmmmfi4]

Is she blonde

[Peridot25]

Hey! The fuck? 😂😂

[Asker]

by the way yes :d

[beiyandao]

Always