Why is my wife such a total nag why does get so irrational and panicky and crazy and dead set on certain things?

[Hatedevils]

She said she just wants the door closed because it's cold and doesn't know why I am so mad about it. She needs to be in a mental hospital because it bothers her when I am pacing around and I come in and out in and out it takes forever to get warm. because it's cold outside. She is so afraid of being sick. If she trusted God more she wouldn't be sick. She said she got sick the last time I did this shit with the door. She said this is why our heating bill is so high. But I don't believe her.

she is such a terrible nag. She wants me to stop slamming the door and the car hood really loud for hours on end so loud the neighbors complain. It makes me want to slam the door more just to get her back. She works from home and finds it really upsetting and exhausting to deal with.

She really needs help with her anxiety and negativity. She said in therapy she thinks it is strange that I say that because I am the only one being aggressive and screaming.

Maybe if she didn't find it so upsetting I wouldn't do it. I am angry she didn't make any food or stay and talk to my pastor when he visited today. She said I need to stop asking them for money and blowing it all on beer. Then telling people she is the reason we are broke. She also said to stop trying to force her to go to church because I don't act very Christlike at all.

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1 y

She doesn't yell. She is really sarcastic when I scream at her. Like the tall lesbian on golden girls. It's very negative. i am positive.

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1 y

I am trying to get answers. I don't understand why she is so negative. She said she's a Capricorn she's not negative she's realistic.

[Finchie40]

Because you both are pointing fingers at each other instead of pointing fingers at yourselves first. It’s easier to blame someone else for your own personal problems or issues instead of just taking accountability for your own behavior and actions. Understand you and your wife are different people that like different things , she likes to be warm and you like to be cold, I am just using this as an example. If you love your wife and you want the nagging to end , you are best to stop pointing fingers at her and start pointing fingers at yourself first and try to compromise with her instead of blaming her. By you doing that, she will more than likely start doing the same for you. Because Somewhere in your marriage together , the both of you clashed somewhere and started butting heads and for whatever reason the both of you aren’t taking accountability for your own actions, instead you are blaming each other over it. One thing I learned that has helped me to experience happier relationships is to learn not to use the word You , when you are talking to your partner. Anytime you use the word You , your partner will automatically get defensive and protect themselves because they feel like they are being attacked. So instead of saying you did this and you did that , Just say , I did this because I enjoy feeling the fresh air when the door is open , I’m sorry that you are getting cold from it so for now on I will go outside and keep the door closed when you are here. Your wife will start to respect
You for doing that , once she notices the change in you , she will more than likely start doing the same for you and no longer be upset with you because you aren’t blaming her , you are compromising with her instead. It’s not going to happen in one night , do this moving forward and I am pretty sure your wife will start respecting and loving you like she did before. If you need anymore advice please feel free to inbox me

[Anonymous]

You're in need of a divorce and god really you're the one in need of mental support I mean belief in non existent entities is schizophrenia

[DryGermanGuy]

Learn to troll better. Boring.

[Hatedevils]

This is just a day in the life of a married man. I wish I could have married a woman from the fifties. I would have been happier. Feminists ruined everything

[MzAsh]

No ya don’t. Women from the fifties would have told you you quit your whiny bitching

[RageBabe]

Is this what married life has become?

[Hatedevils]

Yes. Then she thinks she is entitled to some of the stamps I bought. I feel like not letting her have them because I am mad about the door

[RageBabe]

It might be worth looking into marriage counseling.