My wife of 6 months erratic behaviour?

[stevef73]

My wife accused me of miss treating her if I dont do everything she asks at that moment in time. She throws tantrums and becomes abusive then starts damaging things in the house.

The other day she kicked in a door and stabbed a knife in the kitchen work top.

This has all started since I found out she had lied about one of the corner stones our marriage was built on.

I will not say it hasn't done damage but nothing that hasn't already been forgiven.

Why has she gone like this? Why does she keep removing her rings and saying she doesn't want this relationship. Why doesn't she just walk away from it?

Instead she switches back to the woman I married as quick as you can say stop.

[Anonymous]

Based on what you've shared, it sounds like your wife may be struggling with some serious emotional and behavioral issues that are impacting your relationship. It's concerning that she's become physically violent and destructive towards you and your property, and it's important to take steps to ensure your safety and well-being.

It's possible that your wife's erratic behavior could be related to underlying mental health issues, such as anxiety, depression, or bipolar disorder. It's also possible that she may be struggling with unresolved emotional trauma or stressors that are impacting her behavior.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your wife about your concerns and to encourage her to seek professional help, whether that means therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. It's also important to prioritize your own safety and well-being in the meantime.

If your wife continues to engage in violent or dangerous behavior, it may be necessary to consider separating or seeking a restraining order for your own protection. Remember that you have the right to a safe and respectful relationship, and it's important to take steps to ensure that your boundaries and well-being are respected.

[slatyb]

Get the hell out. The woman you thought you married was an act. You are seeing the woman you actually married. Have it annulled, get a divorce, but get out NOW NOW NOW. She will ruin your life. if you stay. I know, I've been there.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a pretty intense trauma response. Without detail it's hard to give specific insight but this behavior can be related to quite a few different mental disorders. I'd probably do some investigating to see if she's been diagnosed in her past or try to get her to a mental health doctor. If this isn't caused by any specific mental disorder then it's probably directly related to a traumatic event in her life.

Whatever this issue was, it clearly is very painful for her to think about. Since the truth has been uncovered, she probably has moments where she spirals hard in her own mind and that leads to intense physical reactions such as violent outbursts and starting fights. If possible, try to get her to open up by giving her lots of support, encouragement, and love. Find a time when she's stable and sit her down calmly, express your concerns about her behaviors and ask her to open up to you. Try to be as genuine and open as possible. Don't force it but gently nudging while making her feel safe could do the trick.

[katiesmuff]

WOW! You sure have a winner with that wife. I'd make her ex wife quickly!

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because she's f'ing NUTS! Run, don't walk far away from that. You take off the ring it's game over. I'm not spending a lifetime playing your games.

[CuriousMufuxka]

This is some made up bullshit! My only issue is it isn't very interesting..

[stevef73]

If only it was some made up bill shit

[CuriousMufuxka]

The fuck you talking about?